“If You Want The Sex to Be GREAT: You Gotta Fuck Your Woman’s Mind – Not Just Her Pussy!”
FACT: Dirty Talk Is One of The Most Important ‘Sexual Skills’ Every Man Needs to Master (Yet, 98% of Men Have No Clue How to Do it Effectively). This Blog Posts Explains All – Read On Carefully…
By Adam Armstrong
If you want to be a GREAT LOVER, and blow the mind of every woman you sleep with – you simply HAVE TO talk dirty. Period. Full stop. The end.
In this blog post you’ll discover:
- Why you must talk dirty, if you want to give women incredible pleasure in the bedroom
- Common ways most men SCREW UP dirty talk
- How to talk dirty like a ‘pro’ (and drive your woman CRAZY with your voice)
Let’s get into it…
Most ‘mainstream’ sex advice focuses on simple stuff like sex-positions, and ways to lick the clitoris. And, while this kinda stuff has some value – it’s not what’s most important in the bedroom!
Question:
“What is most important in the bedroom – if you wanna be the kind of man who can blow any woman’s mind, anytime you like?”
Well, as you might have guessed already – DIRTY TALK is one of the most important ‘Sexual Skills’ a man can own…
Because, when done correctly – it gives you HUGE power… Including the ability to make women CUM over and over, and over again.
Indeed, if you held a gun to my head and said:
“Adam, which is more powerful – a 12 inch dick, or being good at dirty talk?”
I wouldn’t hesitate in saying:
“Dirty talk. Every single time”
Think about it…
You see loads of unusually well-hung guys Porn Movies – with incredible staying power to match…
And yet, these Big-Dicked Super Studs very often FAIL to make the women cum, even once. Let alone multiple times!
It’s pathetic.
Bro! You Gotta Fuck Her Mind – Not Just Her Pussy!
“FACT: No Matter What Position You Have Sex in – The Woman Will Orgasm More Quickly and Easily if You Talk Dirty!”
Here’s where things get really interesting…
Because, most guys think sex is a purely PHYSICAL thing. Alpha male sex is not always about the physical sex.
And, that’s why they get so paranoid about ‘Dick Size.’ Because, they think ‘the bigger the dick, the better.’
Truth is, that kinda thinking not only ruins your sexual CONFIDENCE (unless you happen to have a 14” Schlong)…
It also completely misses the point!
The point being:
For WOMEN, sex is way more MENTAL than it is physical!
I repeat:
For WOMEN, sex is way more MENTAL than it is physical!
Pause for a few seconds and let that sink in. It’s important.
Now, burn it into your memory, and never forget it.
What this all means is that it’s not the guy who has the biggest dick who tends to be the best lover. Rather, it’s the guy who can FUCK his woman’s MIND the best.
Dirty talk is the Sexual Skill you use to ‘fuck your woman’s mind.’
And, when you get good at it – women just LOVE you for it.
Of course, to be a truly outstanding lover – you must combine dirty talk, with dominance and knowledge of the correct ‘Orgasm Techniques.’
And, I’ll talk, at length, about dominance and orgasm techniques – in other blog posts.
For now, let’s focus on DIRTY TALK…
Common Mistakes Guys Make That Screw Up Their Dirty Talk (Avoid At All Costs)…
“If She Laughs In Your Face When You Try and Talk Dirty… You Did It WRONG”
The outcome of successful dirty talk is simple:
It increases your woman’s PLEASURE – and drives her closer to ORGASM. Or, it can even trigger her orgasm.
When guys screw up dirty talk, and make a total mess of it, the result is usually one, or more, of the following:
- The woman laughs (not what you want)
- The woman is offended (not what you want)
Next Question:
“What causes women to find dirty talk FUNNY and/or OFFENSIVE – instead of being ‘turned on’ by it?”
Answer:
One, or more, of the following mistakes…
- Using ‘anatomically correct’ words such as ‘penis.’ In the bedroom, when talking dirty – it’s ‘cock,’ not penis!
- Calling her a slut, whore etc. (this can actually sometimes turn a woman on massively! But, only if you do it right)
- Comparing her to one of your ‘exes,’ or one of her friends
- Delivering your dirty talk without confidence, in a weak, non-dominant voice
Now that you know the common mistakes guys make that RUIN their dirty talk – and cause it to do more HARM than good…
Let’s get into the really good stuff…
How To Talk Dirty To Your Woman Like a ‘Pro’ – and Give Her More Pleasure, and Orgasms, Than Ever Before!
“Remember THIS: the Better Your Dirty Talk, The Better She’ll CUM. Period.”
I could write an entire book on dirty talk. Heck, I have written an entire book on it! 😉 Click here to learn more
However, right here, I wanna give you the 5 most important things you gotta remember if you wanna be good at dirty talk…
Read ‘em carefully (cuz you can’t get this info anywhere else!)…
1. Speak Deeply, and With Authority…
Remember this:
Women like strong, manly, DOMINANT men in the bedroom.
A dominant man must have a deep, authoritative voice.
And, the only way to give your woman a DRIPPING WET PUSSY – and 20 orgasms in a single night – using dirty talk… is to speak deeply, and with authority.
You don’t need a super-deep voice to pull this off. Just try and talk a little deeper, and a little slower, than usual – when you’re talking dirty.
2. Only Say What You Mean…
This is REALLY important.
When you talk dirty to your woman – only say things you truly believe and mean.
If you try and say something to her that you don’t really believe – your delivery will be WEAK… She’ll see right through it…
And, it’ll either have no effect on her. Or worse – it could make her LAUGH, or OFFEND her.
3. K.I.S.S…
‘KISS’ is an acronym I’ve just stolen from the world of computer programming.
It stands for:
‘Keep It Simple Stupid!’
Works in the world of programming…
And, it’s equally important when it comes to dirty talk.
I once heard a ‘Sex-Expert’ advising men to do all this flowery dirty talk… where they suggested you compare your woman’s pussy to the wings of a ‘Beautiful Butterfly.’
DO NOT do stuff like that.
It’ll weird your woman out – and make her laugh.
Instead, keep it simple…
Say what you are feeling! For instance:
“Baby, you make me so hard”
“Baby, I can’t wait to taste your wet pussy”
And:
“Jesus Christ baby, it feels so fucking good when you blow my cock like that”
Trust me…
That is the kind of dirty talk that drives women crazy!!!
4. Use A Lot of Crude Language…
In the bedroom, it’s a wise idea to avoid using words like ‘penis, vagina, and clitoris.’
No woman wants to hear that!
What women wanna hear are words like:
Cock, pussy and clit.
Here are some examples of CRUDE dirty talk phrases that’ll really ramp up your woman’s sexual desire:
“Baby, I’m gonna fuck you so hard with my big, fat cock”
“Your pussy tastes so fucking good. I love licking your clit”
And:
“Baby, open that pussy up for me. I’m gonna fuck you so hard”
See how SIMPLE that is?
And, yet – most guys either:
- Fail to talk dirty
Or:
- Totally screw it up
I’m giving you the Gold here. The stuff women love – yet 99% of men are CLUELESS about. I hope you’re taking notes 😉
5. When To Make It Really ‘Hard-Core’…
“Women Often Have The Most Intense and Powerful Orgasms – When The Guy Uses His Dirtiest, More ‘Hard-Core’ Dirty Talk!”
To be perfectly truthful…
The more HARD-CORE you make your dirty talk – the more effective it will be!
However, if you try to push too hard, too soon – it can back-fire.
As a rule of thumb, make your dirty talk ‘Hard-core’ when:
- You’re regularly giving your woman GREAT SEX. Including multiple orgasms every time
- She is very close to orgasm
For instance, just last night, I remember saying the following things to my woman when we were having sex:
“I’m going to fuck you like a whore”
“I’m going to use your body just to make myself feel good”
“Do as you’re fucking told – and suck my cock into your slutty little mouth”
And:
“Baby, you love it when I ride you like a bitch. Now cum hard for me. Cum really hard.”
Did she enjoy that?
Upwards of 15 orgasms tells me that she did!
However…
Did I talk that HARD-CORE to her the first time I slept with her? No. I did not.
You see, you have to build up to the really dirty stuff. You have to build up to the point where your woman is your ‘Naughty Little Slut’ – and loves nothing more than to be your naughty little slut!
Learn how to be more dominant in bed
That said, dirty talk must always be a part of your ‘Sexual Sessions’…
Because, as I said earlier…
You gotta fuck her MIND, not just her pussy!
>> Leave your comments, and questions in the comments area below – and I’ll get back to you asap,
Adam Armstrong
P.S. If you want to Master the Dark Art of Dirty Talk – and become skillful enough to give woman orgasms using nothing but your voice – I highly recommend you grab a copy of my Dirty Talk Phrases Program.
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4 Comments
Billy May
14/12/2022 - 8:54 amThanks Adam for your great insights on helping us alphas take our ladies to greater sexual heights !!
I have reached the point in my year long relationship w my lady on dirty talk …..my problem is , I’m turning her on too much and it’s then turning me on too much and I get premature too quickly !!!
Got any suggestions ??
Adam Armstrong
19/12/2022 - 3:54 amHi Billy,
You’re welcome my friend!
Ah, well, that’s not such a bad problem to have! Suggestions for lasting longer:
– Breathe nasally and diaphragmatically
– Use Toaist Thrusting
– Take Go All Night Formula
Those 3 things should get you lasting A LOT longer,
Adam
david m nawrocki
14/10/2022 - 4:25 pmYou are so right, and I am so thankful for you. My woman orgasms more quickly and more often than she did before I started dirty talk in the bedroom with her.
Tonight, I plan on slapping the zip ties on her wrists. She is going to cum so hard. Got this idea from your Bedroom Boss program.
Thank you, Adam!
Adam Armstrong
01/11/2022 - 7:18 amGood man David! The dirty talk is a game changer – but most men don’t have the BALLS to do it!
Adam