Adam Armstrong
“Women Love Sex – and Want A LOT of It – but Only When It’s Really Really Good!”
Stuck In A Rut with Your Woman, Where The Sex Has Become Boring, and Predictable? Or, Perhaps The Sex Isn’t Even Happening At All! Either Way, Here’s What To Do About It…
By Adam Armstrong
If you’d like to improve your relationship – and enjoy much BETTER SEX with your woman, starting tonight…
You’re going to LOVE this blog post. Because in it, you’ll discover 30 PROVEN ways to bring back the passion, and reignite the spark in your bedroom.
So, read what follows carefully, use some – or ALL – of the ideas with your woman…
Then, thank me later…
Cuz your Sex-Life is about to get a whole lot more interesting!
Just before we get into the ‘Tips and Techniques’ you can use to have a more passionate, sexual, and exciting relationship with your woman – I’ll say this…
Most couples – 98% or more – end up in a relationship where the passion, sex, excitement, and sheer enjoyment and happiness, dwindle over time…
What used to be sex twice-a-night – becomes sex 3 times a week…
Then, it’s sex once-a-week…
Then, it’s sex once-a-month.
And, if you’re really unlucky – your woman only ever ‘Pays Out,’ and opens her legs for you, 3 times a year…
Christmas, Valentine’s Day, and your Birthday.
Another common scenario is that couples carry on having sex – but the woman only does it when the guy BEGS for it, or BUY HER STUFF in exchange for it.
All of this is enough to make me wanna PUKE.
Yet, it’s exactly how many couples live – especially once that initial ‘Honeymoon Period’ is over.
Good News is…
If you use even just a handful of the GOLD I’m about to share with you – you’ll be able to enjoy a relationship with your woman that gets STRONGER over time…
With enough RED-HOT SEX to keep you both fully satisfied!
That thought in mind, let’s dive straight into the good stuff…
30 Proven Tips, Techniques and Strategies You Can Use to Have Much Better Sex with Your Woman…
Note: the following ideas aren’t presented in any specific order… simply read ‘em, and use ‘em, as you see fit…
1. Go Spend a Night In a Hotel
“There’s Something About a Night In a Hotel that Always Leads to GREAT SEX!”
There’s something about spending a night – or 2- in a hotel, that makes a couple wanna FUCK.
You don’t even have to go far – I’ve taken many girlfriends for ‘Dirty Weekends’ in a hotel in the same city that we live in.
If anything, going to stay in a Hotel that’s just a few minutes away can make it seem even naughtier… and just makes you want to ‘get it on’ even more.
As a rule of thumb…
Try to do a ‘Hotel Night’ or ‘Hotel Weekend’ at least once every 3 months when you’re in a long-term relationship. If you can do it once every 6 weeks, or even once a month – all the better.
2. Pencil In a Weekly ‘Dinner Date’
Here’s a simple way to bring back the Romance and Passion… be sure to take your woman out for dinner once-a-week.
These weekly ‘Dinner Dates’ allow for quality YOU-and-HER time. Which can be hard to come by once you have kids (ask me how I know!)
Two bits of advice:
- As the man, it’s your job to plan the ‘Dinner Dates’ (at least most of the time)
- Sit next to her in the restaurant – not opposite her (it’s much more Romantic and ‘Touchy-Feely’ this way)
3. Be More Assertive and Take The Lead at All Times
Most men are afraid to be assertive with women these days. Yet, it’s exactly what women want – despite what society might tell us.
Women want strong, assertive men, who aren’t afraid to take the lead.
Here are 2 simple examples of how you can be assertive with your woman:
I. TEXT MESSAGE: “Baby, I’ll be back at 7.30pm tonight. I’m taking you out to dinner. Don’t ask me where we’re going – it’s a surprise. Just wear a little black dress, heels – and that red underwear I love to see you in”
II. When she can’t decide what she wants to eat in the restaurant – DECIDE FOR HER!!!
See how that works?
You’re the guy – so you’re constantly taking the lead, and showing your woman the way. Women LOVE men who can do this. Sadly, most men don’t do it.
4. Use More Dirty Talk
“Women Love a Man Who Knows How to Use His Voice to Get Her Hot, Wet & Horny!”
If you want to have a GREAT sex-life with your woman, and you want her Sex-Drive to be HIGH – so you can ‘get laid’ whenever you like…
You have to make the sex really GOOD for her.
Give her good sex – and she’ll want more of it.
Give her bad sex – and she won’t be interested.
It’s THAT simple!
Great way to make the sex better, in an instant?
Give her more ORGASMS.
Easy way to give her more orgasms? Start TALKING DIRTY in the bedroom. Because, when you talk dirty – you stimulate her MIND (not just her pussy).
And, the real key to unlocking your woman’s true orgasmic potential lies between her EARS, in her mind. Not between her legs.
Meditate on that thought for a few seconds. It’s the truest truth.
5. Pay Her More Unique Compliments
Every woman likes to hear a compliment from her man.
And, chances are – you probably complimented your woman A LOT when you first met her. But, possibly less so these days.
Pay her more compliments – preferably compliments that are UNIQUE to her if you can.
This’ll remind her that you find her HOT and SEXY. And, that’ll make her wanna ‘get down and dirty’ way more often.
6. Tease Her
The more you TEASE HER – and make her wait – the more HUGE her ORGASM will be when you finally ‘tip her over the edge’ and make her cum.
Try it, and you’ll see what I mean.
7. Make It Rough and Dirty
Women aren’t the fragile, gentle creatures many ‘Nice Guys’ think they are.
A woman’s vagina can push a BABY out for fuck’s sake. And, the vagina survives, goes back to it’s original size and shape – and lives to tell the freakin’ tale 😉
So, even if you’re 250lbs of pure muscle, and have a cock that hangs down to your knees – you aren’t gonna BREAK her.
Meaning that when I say women like it ‘Rough and Dirty’ – they really do!
Grab her hair, pick her up, let her feel your manly STRENGTH.
This is why women like Bad Boys – because that’s exactly how Bad Boys act with women in the bedroom.
Try it out – your woman will LOVE it.
And, if you don’t do it – she might one day CHEAT with a guy who can (trust me – it happens all the time).
8. Be Ultra Romantic
“A Little Romance Can Lead to A LOT of Sex…”
Send flowers to her workplace…
Take her out for dinner at the most Romantic Restaurant in town…
Go home, run her a hot bubble bath…
Let her relax in there.
Then, light the candles in the bedroom, put the ‘love-making music’ on – and the rest should flow quite nicely 😉
9. Write Her a ‘Love Letter’
You could write your woman a soppy Love Letter. But, that’s NOT what I’m suggesting here.
I remember once writing a girlfriend a highly sexual Love Letter. Maybe ‘Lust Letter’ would be a better way of describing it!
I left it for her, in an envelope, on the kitchen table, when I left the house in the morning. When I returned in the evening, she greeted me at the door – in stockings, suspenders and very little else – and we had some of the best sex ever.
The ‘Lust Letter’ really got her DRIPPING WET.
It was kinda outrageous.
Here’s the gist of what it said:
“Dearest [Insert Woman’s Name]
You know you mean the world to me, and that I have your best interests at heart. I love you very dearly.
I also want you to know that I OWN your body. I OWN your PUSSY. And, I OWN your ASS.
And, I’ll USE your body, your pussy, and your ass – to make myself feel good – whenever I see fit.
I own you. And I’ll fuck you anytime I like”
Women just aren’t use to guys having the BALLS and CREATIVITY to come up with this kinda stuff. But, when you do – they adore, and worship you for it! 😉
10. Tie Her Up and Make Her Beg
I’m not into crazy elaborate bondage. While I can see the fun in it, I’ve just never really got into it.
I prefer CABLE TIES (or ZIP TIES).
Put one around each wrist.
Then use a 3rd to tie the other two together.
You now have a perfect pair of handcuffs that she CANNOT escape from. With a little thought and imagination you can have A LOT of fun with that set-up. And it costs virtually nothing.
Quick and easy to set up too.
11. Blindfold Her
“When You Remove One Sense – All The Others Are Heightened!”
When you temporarily remove one sense – in this case, your woman’s vision – all her other senses are heightened.
From time to time, blindfolding your woman is a real simple, real effective way to inject some EXCITEMENT into your bedroom.
12. Fuck Her In ‘The Great Outdoors’
Car Parks, Woods, Forest, The Beach…
There are many great places to fuck your woman in ‘The Great Outdoors.’
There’s something very PRIMAL about fucking her up against a tree. I highly recommend you try it.
13. Have Sex In ‘Risky’ Places
One time I gave my girlfriend a fingering anal orgasm in the cinema. I had to ORDER her to “cum in silence”
Imagine if she’d have SCREAMED!
We’d both have been locked up in jail.
Another time I had KILLER SEX with a girl in a Steam Room at a fancy hotel.
On another occasion, in Amsterdam, a girlfriend and I had a threesome with a hooker. It was my girlfriend’s idea – I could hardly say “NO!”
The theme here is common – there’s a threat of being ‘caught’… or, in the case of the threesome – actually letting someone else ‘in on the action.’
Since women like anything NAUGHTY – and TABOO – in the bedroom, they tend to LOVE this “Oh my God, we might get caught” vibe.
14. Buy Her Lingerie
“Women Always Appreciate The Gift of Sexy Lingerie…”
Go through your woman’s underwear drawer and figure out what size Bra and Panties she wears. Then go buy her something real sexy.
Recently I bought my girlfriend some really classy underwear. Beautiful silky stuff. Only difference was – all the panties were CROTCHLESS.
You think that led to hot and heavy ‘sessions’ in the bedroom?
You bet it did!
15. Show Her That You Appreciate Her
Oftentimes, in long-term relationship – women really feel like their men take them for granted. They feel like their men see them as only being good for cooking, cleaning, and opening their legs.
They feel unappreciated.
Showing your woman that you truly appreciate her, will make her feel more CONNECTED to you. The more connected she feels to you – the more SEX she’ll wanna have. Period.
Here are some simple ways to show your woman you appreciate her:
- Say “Thank you” whenever appropriate
- When she does something nice for you – say: “Baby, That’s so kind. I really appreciate that”
- Surprise her by taking her out for dinner, or for a Weekend Break
16. Support Her When She Needs It
Every woman wants to feel a deep EMOTIONAL connection with her man.
The better this connection, the more – and better – the sex usually is.
A great way to build this emotional connection with your woman is to support her when she needs it…
When she wants you to LISTEN, just listen.
When she asks for advice, give her advice as best you can.
When she embarks on something new in her life – be their to congratulate her, guide her, and help her out in any way you can.
17. Stop Doing Anything That Causes Her To Lose Respect For Her
“A Loss of Respect = A Lot Less Sex. Period.”
To have AMAZING sex – your woman must respect you.
You can’t give a woman Intercourse Orgasms during Anal Intercourse, or Spanking Orgasms, or Mindgasms – unless that RESPECT is there.
So, stop doing anything that’ll cause her to lose respect for you.
One of the worst ways men cause their women to LOSE RESPECT for them is by asking for sex. It’s needy, it’s wussy, it’s non-Alpha behavior…
And:
It makes her wanna fuck someone else. Period.
18. Stop Doing Anything That Causes Her To Not Trust You
This goes hand-in-hand with the ‘RESPECT THING’
No trust = no sex.
The best way to develop a high level of trust with your woman is to commit to telling the truth, and being a man of your word.
Sounds simple – yet few men tell the truth, and stick to their word all of the time. Be the exceptional man who does.
19. Be The Leader of Men
Women are naturally ATTRACTED to – and want to mate with – Alpha Men. Alpha Men who lead other men.
Be THAT guy…
Be the guy other men follow.
It’ll have a powerful effect on your woman – because it’ll make her see what a great MAN you really are. A MAN – who leads – in a sea of SHEEP, who follow!
20. Work On Yourself, Every Single Day
“The More Your Work On Yourself – and Improve Yourself – The More Sex You’ll Get. And That’s a FACT.”
I spend, on average, 30 minutes every morning – and 60 minutes every evening – working on myself.
What do I mean when I say ‘working on myself?’
Basically I mean – working on ME.
Not working on my business. Just ME.
That’s 1.5 hours per day – or more than 500 hours a years! – working on me, on my ‘Inner Game.’
This gives me a level of confidence, and self-esteem, that is independent of what others think. And, this makes me highly desirable to women.
I don’t say that to BRAG.
It just is what it is.
Question:
“What do I do during this 1.5 hours a day where I work on myself?”
Here are just a few of things:
- Oil Pulling
- My 7-Step Oral Hygiene Routine
- Original Strength
- Various Stretching and Mobility Work
- Drinking Clean Spring Water
- Meditation
- Contrast Showers
And more.
21. Tell Her How Good She Smells
During Foreplay, kiss her Neck and say:
“Baby, you smell so sexy”
When you’re ‘Eating Her Out’ – say:
“Baby, you pussy smells so good”
or:
“Baby, your ass smells so good” (this REALLY gets women off)
22. Show Her Ass Some Attention
It’s my experience – with dozens of women – and the experience of all my best clients (with thousands of women), that:
Women LOVE all the ‘Ass Stuff’ society brainwashes us into thinking women shouldn’t like. The list includes:
- Spanking
- Anal licking
- Anal fingering
- Anal fucking
Women LOVE it all. When done correctly.
To find out how to ‘do it correctly’ – grab a copy of my Bedroom Boss program.
23. Bring The Mirrors and Cameras Into Play
“Something as Simple as a Mirror Can Really ‘Spice-Up’ Your Sex-Life!”
The use of Mirrors, Cameras and Video can be really EXCITING in the bedroom.
I remember dating this one girl who’d forever be positioning the mirrors in her bedroom in different ways – so she could watch my cock going in and out of her from many angles.
It was hot as hell.
Dirty bitch! 😉
Of course, pictures are fun too.
And, VIDEO just takes it to a whole new level.
One time, an ex of mine dressed up as a Naughty School Girl for me. I played the part of the stern Headmaster.
After some discipline – including some hard spanking – I fucked the shit out of her.
The whole thing was recorded, on video. And we ‘got off’ several times watching it back afterwards.
24. Make Her Cum Using Nothing But Your Voice
I believe there are 2 types of ORGASM that you could describe as ‘the most powerful kind of female orgasm.’
They are very different.
The first is the ANAL ORGASM during intercourse. Nothing will make her SCREAM louder.
The second is the ‘Mindgasm.’
An orgasm where she CUMS as a result of your WORDS only. You do not touch her in any way.
While not as physically mind-bending as the Anal Orgasm during Intercourse – in it’s own way, the Mindgasm is even more powerful:
For her, because she’s like:
“What the fuck just happened? I came without you even touching me!!!”
And, for you, because once you can ‘get her off’ using only your voice – ‘getting her off’ when physical touch is included is EASY.
Important:
I cover Anal Orgasms, and Mindgasms, in detail, in Bedroom Boss.
25. Give Her 20 Orgasms In One ‘Session’
Once you give your woman 20 Orgasms in one ‘session’ – let’s say ‘in an hour’ or so – there’s no going back.
Her libido will be through-the-roof, and she’ll want you to fuck her every night. Sometimes twice. Or thrice 😉
Remember:
The more PLEASURE you give, the more SEX she’ll want from you.
And, 20 orgasms is A LOT of pleasure!
26. Use Her For Your Own Pleasure
One night, get really NASTY with your woman, and as she gets very close to orgasm, simply say:
“I love using your for my pleasure. I’m gonna use you all night long. I don’t give a fuck. I’m just gonna use your sex holes to make myself feel good”
Sexist?
Hardly!
Women totally LOVE this. In fact, your woman will CUM so HARD when you talk to her like this – you simply won’t believe it. And, you’ll feel like ‘The Don.’
27. Spank Her For Being a ‘Naughty Girl’
“I’m Yet to Meet Even a Single Woman Who Didn’t Enjoy Being SPANKED in The Bedroom!”
Women love a good spanking.
Most men don’t have the balls to spank their women.
Spank your woman. She’ll appreciate it.
Do it when you’re fucking her from behind (I like to spank my woman with one hand. And play with her arsehole with my other. Meanwhile, I’m BALLS DEEP in her pussy. Think she CUMS quite hard? Bet your life on it she does!)
Also, be sure to put her over your knee now and then, tell her she’s been a naughty girl – and give her 10 hard spanks.
She’ll love it. Especially if you do it hard enough to make her butt cheeks a little red and rosy!
28. Give Her a Massage
Want more sex with your woman?
Give her a massage.
Turn the lights down low, warm up the room – play some soothing music in the background.
Then, use a lot of oil, and firmly massage her in this order:
- Neck and Shoulders
- Back
- Back of thighs
- Back of calves
- Butt
Then FUCK her.
She’ll be begging for it.
29. Teach Her How to Suck Your Cock
Remember how I said that women like strong, dominant men who take control and LEAD them?
Well, women love it when you TAKE CONTROL in the bedroom, and teach them what you like.
Teaching them how to suck your cock is just one example.
One crucial tip is to always Compliment her, before you direct her. Here’s how it works…
As she’s sucking your cock, say:
“Baby, that feels so good. Now rub my balls and suck me harder.”
Get it?
You complimented her first:
“Baby, that feels so good.”
Then, you DIRECTED her:
“…rub my balls and suck me harder.”
She’ll never take offense if you ‘train her’ this way.
Compliment, then Direct – that’s how it’s done.
30. Do Everything Society Labels As ‘Taboo’ In The Bedroom
“If It’s Naughty, Taboo, Kinky or ‘Wrong’ – She Probably Wants to Try It!”
If you really want to put the SPARK back in your intimate relationship – and enjoy a lot more sex, with a woman whose HORNY for you all the time…
Make the sex different every time, and do everything TABOO that society tells you is ‘wrong.’
Grab your woman’s hair…
Tie her up…
Restrain her…
Talk dirty…
Have threesomes…
Cum in her mouth…
Make her squirt…
Bite her nipples…
Show her asshole some LOVE…
Spank her…
Film it all…
Photograph it…
Make it kinky, make it outrageous, make it totally unforgettable.
When you make the sex like that – your woman’s libido will be STRONG forever. And, because it’s YOU whose giving her such great sex – it’s YOU who she’ll want to fuck her.
Perfect.
Note: if you really want to take your sex-life to a whole new level – grab a copy of my Bedroom Boss program.
In it, I’ll show you everything you need to know to be the best lover any woman has ever had – including genital and non-genital orgasm, dirty talk, and more
Now, I gotta dash. But, please leave your comments and questions below.
And, I’ll talk to you again soon…
Adam Armstrong
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