Adam Armstrong
If You Believe These BS Sex Myths, It’s Unlikely You’re Satisfying Any Woman You Take to the Bedroom…
By Adam Armstrong
If you believe any one of the common Sex Myths I’m about to bebunk – you’re in BIG TROUBLE as far as your sex-life goes!
And, the really BAD NEWS is, this…
The vast majority of men (and quite a lot of women too) believe ALL 5 of these myths that totally DESTROY the quality of the sex you can have with any woman you take to the bedroom.
The GOOD NEWS is…
Once you realize the truth about “Women and Sex”, you give yourself a Massive Advantage over all the other guys… because you’re no longer hampered in the bedroom by a set of faulty beliefs that hold you back.
Let’s get into it…
Sex Myth #1: Women Don’t Like Sex
It sounds crazy, but there are actually A LOT of men out there who geniunely believe that most women don’t like sex!
This, of course, is complete hogwash. And, it makes ‘getting laid’ very difficult – because it gives any man who has this belief a very negative attitude towards women and sex. And, it makes men think they have to BUY or BRIBE women into bed.
The reality is that women LOVE sex.
However, what many women get sick of, is the PISS POOR QUALITY of sex most men give them.
Think about it…
If you rarely had an orgasm, would you be so bothered to have sex?
If you regularly went to bed with a woman who was SELFISH and only cared for her own needs, would you be so excited to have sex?
I think not.
Yet, that’s how it is for many women…
They go to bed with some fat, sweaty mess of guy… he can barely ‘get it up’… he gives her little, if any, satisfaction… and somewhere between 2 and 5 minutes after starting, he blows a pathetic load inside her pussy.
Then she has to shower.
I mean, is it any wonder many women get sick of having sex with their men?
But that doesn’t mean women don’t like sex. They’re just pickier than men – meaning: good women only like really GOOD sex!
Sex Myth #2: Size Matters
If you believe this to be true, it will actually be true. Meaning: your size will hold you back in the bedroom. Even if you have 9 inches… you’ll worry about the fact that your woman might have been with a guy who had 10.
Here’s the truth…
What matters to a woman in the bedroom is PLEASURE. Meaning: ORGASMS.
The more ORGASMS you give her, the happier she’ll be. Generally speaking.
And, the amount, and variety of orgasms you give her has very little to do with your size! To learn how to give your woman Multiple Orgasms every time – regardless of your size – read this post now
Sex Myth #3: You Must Stimulate Your Woman’s Clitoris to Make Her Orgasm
Most men AND women believe that the clitoris is the key to a woman’s ORGASM.
This is total bullshit.
First class bullshit in fact.
The truth is that clitoral stimulation is just one way to make a woman cum. In much the same way that doing Bench Presses is just one way to make your body stronger (what about squats, deadlifts, pull ups, push ups and so on? They all work too, some much better than the Bench Press).
Same goes in the bedroom…
If you limit stimulation to just her clit – you’ll limit the number, and intensity, of orgasms you give her.
Key Point: your woman’s most powerful “Pleasure Centre” is in her BRAIN. And, you stimulate it with DIRTY TALK. Read this post to learn more
Key Point #2: There are dozens of ways to make a woman orgasm – including vaginal stimulation, anal stimulation, nipple stimulation, spanking orgasms, mindgasms, countdown orgasms, lip orgasms and so many more. To limit things to just clitoral orgasms (when they’re not even the most powerful orgasms) is just INSANE!
Sex Myth #4: Women Don’t Like Naughty, Dirty, Adventurous Sex
The idea that men like really dirty sex, and women only like to have sex lying on their backs, in silence, with the lights off, is NONSENSE.
In my experience, once you sexually liberate a woman (by giving her REALLY GOOD SEX), women become WAY MORE SEXUAL than men!
Think about it…
Most men are happy just to ‘get laid.’
They don’t care how. If their little dick gets hard, and they get to stick it in a warm wet pussy for 30 seconds, before blowing a silent, apologetic load, most guys are just dandy.
Pathetic. But true.
Women are different.
Give a high quality women BORING sex, and she’ll soon stop wanting it. And “NO” – that doesn’t make her FRIGID. It just means she has STANDARDS!
But, give a quality women multiple orgasms every time, and guide her with both your physical strength, and your voice, and her “inner slut” will come out to play.
And, then, it’s my experience that most women really have no limits. They’re down to try, and ENJOY, pretty much anything in bed, so long as you’re a strong, dominant man, who’s not afraid to TAKE CONTROL and lead her.
Sex Myth #5: If You Give Your Woman an Orgasm Every Time You Fuck Here, That’s GREAT SEX, and You’re “The Man!”
One orgasm?
Seriously, come on.
If all you do is give your woman one clitoral orgasm every time – like most men do – sooner or later she’ll get bored. I promise you that. It’s the truest truth.
This is why so many marriages end up SEXLESS (or in divorce) – because all the guy did, for 15 years, was lick her clit, “get her off” once, then plough her like a Rabbit, for 5 minutes if she’s lucky, before shooting his wad, rolling over, farting, and going to sleep.
The stuff of dreams this is not!
To be “THE MAN” in the bedroom, and make any woman hopelessly addicted to you, here is what you must do, in a nutshell:
- Be Dominant. Take Control. Lead her. Understand that she’s Submissive in the bedroom. Read Bedroom Boss to learn more
- Stimulate her mind. You do this with Dirty Talk
- Make the sex different every time. Otherwise it gets boring sooner or later. Period
- Make the sex naughty, dirty and taboo. Women LOVE this (hint: it’s why they read Romance Novels and Erotic Fiction… to try and experience the naughty/diryt/taboo sex they’re NOT getting at home!)
- Give her Multiple Orgasms every time. Do this and she’ll worship your cock day and night. Because she knows she ain’t getting this level of pleasure from any other guy!
Got questions?
Leave ‘em Below, and I’ll get back to you ASAP.
Thanks for reading, and have a great day…
Your friend,
Adam Armstrong
11 Comments
Jay
21/04/2024 - 6:15 amWomen.have told me stamina matter’s the most. Or she just leaves that guy who can’t last.
rodney
27/12/2023 - 9:18 amI disagree. I think there ARE women out there who don’t like sex and they “tolerate” a man stimulating them. I was married to one for 28 years. Maybe British women are different but I think I was tolerated and that’s why I left. That I recall, she did NOT initiate sex. and she was NOT an active participant.
Adam Armstrong
28/12/2023 - 1:48 amMaybe you and her just weren’t a good fit Rodney,
Adam
Franz
20/09/2021 - 3:44 amHi there, I am a man in his early 60 s who was blessed with a personality and looks that attract fair bit of female attention, no joke I average between 500 to 600 emails everyday day. But that’s beside the point, I haven’t had problems with giving women every kind of orgasms, whether orally or by penetration. I do have one issue that has haunted me for a long time which is when a lady asks me to talk dirty to them and to subsequently giving them a mind orgasm. I just freeze up, my mind goes stir-crazy, I just feel like a complete idiot when I can’t talk dirty the way she would want me to, hence I’ve never accomplished giving a lady a mind orgasm !! SOS , help – any tips ? I’m all ears !!
Juliette
23/07/2019 - 8:06 pmThomas from a female perspective I can tell you exactly the problem. And it’s all on you! You may not like it though.
1. You’re NOT asserting your dominance if you are allowing this behavior from a woman. Just the thought of jumping on a man and getting myself off is awful.
2. She feels her chances of having an orgasm are better by giving it to herself with your dick than allowing you to do it. (I’m guessing she learned from experience)
By you saying you want to just be touched by a woman and paid for it tells me that you’re not being dominant or your woman would be begging to touch you. Guaranteed. I’ve been with both types of men and I’ll do nearly anything for the dominant one and given the opportunity I’ll take full advantage of the non dominant one just before I dump his pussy ass.
Here’s what to do! Next time she tries it (hopping on you) , STOP her. Seriously!! Don’t allow! Damn be a man!! Tell her no and instruct her what to do otherwise! In an assertive deep manly voice say,
“Good girl! You’re naked for me, I like that! now you’re going to lie your ass back on the bed!” Tie her hands if she’ll let you. Use the A-spot method and give her an orgasm (or preferably several) that she can’t give herself. The best of her life!
Listen to all of the other stuff Adam tells you to do and she’ll begin doing anything you want. I promise! Be patient though! You need to practice and she needs re-training.
What have you got to lose? You’re not enjoying it anyway (and neither is she it’s just “getting relief” not true pleasure) so you might as well try something different.
Good luck!
Thomas Macy
23/07/2019 - 6:21 pmI got a woman who strips down even before I can take off my shoes. Jumps on me &pumps me ten minutes. THAN climbs off &showers even if I didn’t finish.
What to do ?
I’ve paid for massages just to have a woman to touch me for more than ten minutes.
We are in the late 40’s .
Adam Armstrong
23/07/2019 - 7:07 pmHey Thomas, interesting scenario. She seems very keen, but also very selfish.
First question I’d ask is – how long have you been with her, and do you want to be with her for the rest of your life? I need more detail to give a quality response…
– How long have you been with her?
– Has the sex always been like this?
– When the sex is happening, is she bothered about your pleasure in any way?
– Is she confidence outside the bedroom? Does she have high self-esteem? Is she intelligent?
Tell me MORE and I’ll help you out…
Adam
Patrick
23/07/2019 - 6:02 pm“In my experience, once you sexually liberate a woman (by giving her REALLY GOOD SEX), women become WAY MORE SEXUAL than men!”
Exactly my experience too. It takes time, patience, trust and consistency with verbal and non-verbal communication for them to open up (particularly, it seems, if they have been shut down by a previous partner), but my god it’s worth it. After I red DEVI, and then found your blog, I’ve had this happen to more women than for this to be a mere coincidence.
Oh, and I’m not sure I’m fully on-board with #5. The girl I’m dating now, while she can cum vaginally, she greatly prefers clitoral orgasm, as she says they are way stronger for her, and she has to “rest” for the same amount of time to be ready for a new one, wether it be a vaginal or clitoral orgasm.
Keep it up, man!
Adam Armstrong
23/07/2019 - 7:05 pmhey Patrick, thanks for your detailed response. Regarding Point 5 – I dated ONE woman who preferred clitoral orgasms to vaginal. But, the rest preferred vaginal.
Honestly, I think the 3 most powerful female orgasms are:
– Anal orgasms during intercourse (prepare to hear her SCREAM)
– Mindgasms (prepare for her to be like “What. The. Fuck. Did. You. Just. Do?”
And:
– Squirting Orgasms (because it’s the biggest RELEASE she can have)
Keep UP the HARD work 😉
Adam
Ken
23/07/2019 - 2:14 pmAdam — Thanks for this and your most recent, prior post. Your advice always serves to push the boundaries on what I grew up believing was the “correct” way to be around women. As a child of the 60’s who came of age in the 70’s, I was taught (and believed) men should treat women a certain way. You’ve proven to me that women WANT men to be the boss in the bedroom — and will respond better for it! Thanks so much for the bedroom behavior corrections. Your friend, Ken (USA)
Adam Armstrong
23/07/2019 - 2:54 pmHey Ken, women definitely want men to be the BOSS! Glad you’re enjoying the blog posts 🙂
Adam