How to Be an Awesome Lover in 7 Simple Steps

Here’s a Checklist for Any Man Who Wants to Have Mind-Blowing Sex with Beautiful Women…

By Adam Armstrong

If you want to be AWESOME in bed – so you can blow any woman’s mind – read on carefully…

The harsh reality is, that for most women, most of the time, sex is a let down. A disappointment. Especially in a long-term relationship.

Why?

Because most men are CLUELESS in the bedroom.

Here’s the thing though…

Because most men are so poorly educated on ‘matters of the bedroom’ – it represents a HUGE OPPORTUNITY for you my friend. 

How so?

Well, if YOU work on your ‘Sexual Skills’ even just a little bit, you’ll be so far ahead of all the other guys – you’ll be able to give ANY woman the kind of sex that’ll make her complete and utterly addicted to you. Willing to fulfil all your sexual desires.

If you’re married, that means your woman will be BRAGGING to her girlfriends about what a STUD you are ‘in the sack’. And, if you’re single… you’ll have so much CONFIDENCE women will be drawn to you like Bees to Honey!

Let’s get into it…

How Many of The Following 7 Things – things that’ll Get You Laid Like a Rock-Star – Have You Mastered?

1. Your Physical Appearance


You don’t have to look like a Movie Star to sleep with beautiful women. Heck, I certainly don’t look like a Movie Star. But, I have slept with many beautiful women 😉

The point here is that your looks are largely genetic… but, how you present yourself to the world – both in terms of your face, and your body, is largely up to you!

A few simple questions will show you what I mean:

  • Is your hair neat and tidy, or a dirty mess?
  • Are you teeth clean, and is your breath fresh, or is the state of your mouth something offensive?
  • Is your facial hair well suited to you, or is your beard out of control?
  • If you wear glasses, do they suit your face, or do they make you look like a nerd?
  • Are you lean and trim, or overweight?
  • Do you smell clean and fresh?
  • Are your fingernails trimmed short and filed smooth, or do you have long, sharp nails that no woman in her right mind would want anywhere hear the most intimate parts of her body?
  • Do you dress well, in clothes that suit you (in terms of fit and colour), or, do you pay little attention to what you where?
  • Do you generally look Fit, Strong and Healthy, or do most women look at you and see someone who is out of shape, and in need of a health kick?

You understand my point here, right?

While you certainly can look like a “Greek God” and still be LOUSY in bed (or vice versa), if you want women to look at you and get WET between the thighs – it pays to make the most of your physical appearance, no matter how much fortune nature has or hasn’t given you in this area!

2. Personality and Confidence

Most men who are successful with women have 3 aspects of their personality that are very well developed (or, that just come naturally to them):

For me, being interesting and funny came quite naturally. I’ve always been able to talk about a wide variety of subjects. And, I’ve always had a decent sense of humour. This has been a BONUS when it came to dating and relationships.

However, CONFIDENCE with women is not something that came easily to me. And, I had to work on it for many years.

I can also tell you this…

Women are attracted to confidence more than anything. When women see a confident man, they automatically think he will be able to please them in bed! This is why women love Bad Boys.

3. Dominance

Dominance is the ability to take control of situations with women. To take the lead.

Women WANT YOU TO DO THIS.

It’s not sexist in any way. It’s not bullying. 

It’s NATURE. Women are programmed to be submissive in the bedroom. Men are supposed to be DOMINANT (shame most aren’t).

You can be dominant (leading) with women OUTSIDE the bedroom too. In fact, you should be dominant outside the bedroom. This can manifest as planning a date night, ordering for her at a restaurant, or simply making any kind of decision that needs to be made, when she can’t make her mind up!

Sexually, dominance is:

  • Instigating the sex
  • Telling her what to do
  • Letting her feel your manly, physical strength
  • Leading her through orgasm
  • Talking dirty

Sexually, dominance is NOT:

  • Asking for sex (lame)
  • Doing household chores, or buying gifts, in exchange for sex (pathetic)
  • Asking if she had an orgasm (only an amatuer needs to do this)
  • Inquiring about her ex lovers (needy and insecure)

And, well, I hope you get the idea. Oh, and be sure to go through my Bedroom Boss program to learn more about how to be a dominant lover.

4. Dirty Talk

Pretty much all mainstream sex advice focuses on the PHYSICAL aspect of sex…

Sex Positions, ways to click the Clitoris, and so on.

Yet, the reality is that, for women, sex is largely MENTAL. Meaning: to give your woman GREAT SEX, you have to stimulate her mind.

Of course, this is done with Dirty Talk.

Successful Dirty Talk is:

  • Delivered confidently, with authority, in a deep, clear voice
  • Simple, not complex, in terms of vocabulary
  • Crude and Naughty, as opposed to ‘Anatomically Correct’ (in the bedroom, it’s always ‘Cock’ and ‘Pussy’… never ‘Penis’ or ‘Vagina’)
  • Something that INCREASES her PLEASURE and gets her closer to ORGASM (if it makes her laugh or offends her, it’s not because ‘dirty talk doesn’t work’ or because ‘she doesn’t like it’… it’s because you did it WRONG!)

All good women LOVE dirty talk. Heck, they NEED it.

My book Dirty Talk Phrases is a good read. It’ll teach you not only WHAT to say, when WHEN and HOW as well. And, all 3 matter. Here’s the link

5. Sexual Creativity

Most men are NOT very creative.

In the bedroom, this is a problem. Because it leads to too much repetition and predictability.

You must change this up, and make the sex different every time, to keep your woman guessing. To keep her interested.

If you aren’t a very creative lover, try the following:

  • Reading Romance/Erotic Fiction. Because these books tell you exactly what women want in bed!
  • Go to a Sex Store (if this doesn’t give you some ideas as to how to ‘spice things up’, I’m not sure what will)
  • Talkto women about sex (listen to what they have to say. It’s one of the best ways to learn exactly what they want in the bedroom)

6. Giving Women The Type of Sex They Really Want

A lot of men have this faulty idea that women don’t like DIRTY sex. 

Nothing could be further from the truth. 

Women just don’t want to INSTIGATE it. Remember: they want to go to bed with a DOMINANT man. 

With a dominant man, who leads her, there’s nothing a woman would rather do than have naughty, dirty, filthy sex!

I’ll give you a short list of ‘naughty’ things I’ve found ALL women enjoy:

  • Anal Play
  • Squirting
  • Hair grabbing
  • Spanking
  • Dirty Talk
  • Having their nipples bite, sucked, licked and so on (same goes for their lips, ears and neck)
  • Being filmed
  • Sex in public
  • Crotchless underwear
  • Sex Toys
  • Dirty weekends

It’s a huge mistake to keep the sex ‘vanilla’ all the time. Missionary with the lights on might be okay once in a while. But she’ll probably like it a lot more if you bend her over, fuck her HARD and DEEP, be relentless with your dirty talk, spank her and so on!

7. Orgasm Techniques

This is the most important thing a highly skilled lover knows… A LOT of orgasm techniques. Because, ultimately, if you make a woman cum over and over again, every time – she’s going to be addicted to you…

She’s going to see you as a “Sex God”…

She’s going to be hot, wet and horny for you all the time.

She’s NOT going to CHEAT on you.

In contrast, if you fail to make her orgasm, multiple times, every time, none of the above will be true! 

It’s up to you.

In my Bedroom Boss program I’ll show you dozens of different ways to give women orgasms, regardless of your ‘size’ or previous sexual experience. Click here to learn more

Got questions or comments?

Leave them below and I’ll get back to you ASAP…

Adam Armstrong

Adam Armstrong is often referred to as ‘The World’s Greatest Sex Coach’. His blog posts, email newsletters, books, audio courses and videos have positively influenced the sex-lives of MILLIONS of people. And his SuperHerb Blends - including Rock Hard Formula - have helped countless thousands of men to boost their Testosterone Levels and experience incredible Sexual Performance. If you want to revolutionize the quality of your sex-life, you’d be wise to start reading Adam’s stuff now!