If You’re Missing Your Ex-Girlfriend, and You Really Want Her Back – Here’s What You Need to Know…

By Adam Armstrong

You’re about to discover the truth about ‘getting your ex back’. And, I’ll warn you now – it’s kinda UGLY.

So, only read on if you can handle it!

Look. Here’s the deal…

Right now, there’s a whole world of savvy marketers, posing as ‘relationship experts’, selling crappy products on ‘how to get your ex back’ (and making a fortune doing it).

For proof of what I’m talking about, check out THIS, and THIS.

Now. If you thought I was going to give you the SECRET to getting your ex-girl back, or ‘The Top 10 Tips’ to making things work with the girl you used to go out with…

…you’d be WRONG!

You see, what I’m actually going to do in just a sec, is give you the whole truth, the full truth, and nothing but the truth about ‘getting your ex back’.

I’ll pull no punches…

And, some might call this TOUGH LOVE…

But, someone’s gotta tell it like it is. And, as usual – that someone is gonna be me!

Read on carefully…

There’s a Reason Why You Broke Up in The First Place!

Listen up.

The whole idea of trying to ‘win your ex back’ is a BAD one. Ok, so there are occasional exceptions, but, in 95% of cases – it’s a very poor idea to try and get back with your ex.

After all, you didn’t break up with her because things were perfect, did you?

You didn’t break up with her because you had the best conversation ever, made each other laugh till your sides hurt, never argued, and had sex so good it made your head spin, did you?

Nope.

Didn’t think so.

You broke up because something was WRONG.

Maybe you were the adventurous type, and she was a stay-at-home ‘security’ type.

Maybe you were a huge Donald Trump fan, and she hated his guts.

Maybe she was wild and kinky in the bedroom and wanted it 3 times a night. You, in contrast, were happy to ‘do it’ once a week, missionary style.

Maybe she CHEATED on you.

Maybe you cheated on her.

Maybe you both cheated.

Maybe you were both BORED.

Whatever.

There are a million reasons why people split up.

The point is – there’s always a reason. And, in all the years I’ve been coaching guys on how to be better MEN, and enjoy more fulfilling relationships with women, I have never – and I really do mean NEVER – seen two people get back together and have an incredible relationship.

It just doesn’t happen.

You know what the best thing you can do is, once you split up with your ex?

Go out and talk to some new women, go on some dates, and realize that this idea that ‘there’s only one girl for you’ is a JOKE. The truth is – there are a lot of women out there who you could have a great relationship with (just not the one you just split up with).

Those thoughts in mind, here are:

5 Huge Reasons Why It’s a Very Bad Idea to Try and Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back…

#1: If There Was Infidelity It’ll Always Rear Its Ugly Head…

One of the most common reasons people split up is INFIDELITY. Because someone CHEATED.

If you cheated on your girlfriend, and you successfully get back with her – she’ll more than likely throw it back in your face whenever she gets the chance.

The reverse is also true – unless you’re an unbelievably forgiving kind of man – you’ll find yourself throwing her infidelity back in her face, IF you make the mistake of  trying to get your ex back.

It’s a very rare person who can truly ‘forgive and forget’ when it comes to CHEATING. So, if you broke up because she wasn’t faithful, or because you weren’t faithful, you’re best off learning from that experience, and NOT getting back together.

#2: It’s Einstein’s Definition of Insanity!

Einstein said that INSANITY was:

“Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”

So, if you split up with this woman, what makes you think anything will be different the second time round?

In all likelihood, it won’t be! Because people rarely change.

So whatever drove you to split up the first time, will almost certainly still be there the second time round. Period.

#3: You’ll Waste a Lot of Time, Money and Effort…

The great Martial Artists, and Movie Star Bruce Lee once said:

“Don’t waste time, because time is what life is made up of”.

Refer back to Point 2 on this list…

If you get back with her, the same things that led you to split up the first time, will likely still be present. And, therefore, you’ll likely split up again.

So, why put yourself, and her, through all that?

Why waste the time, money and effort?

Why not just pick yourself up, dust yourself off, act like a MAN, and move on? It’d be better for everyone involved.

#4: It’ll Slow Down Your Evolution as a Man…

Before I finally settled down with my fiance, I dated a lot of women. Some were serious, some weren’t.

It was easy to walk away from most of them. But, a few relationships really STUNG when they ended.

But, you know what?

Each time a relationship ended, I learned something. I grew. My evolution as a man got deeper.

For instance:

When you feel really shitty, because you just split up with a girl who you adored in many ways, it takes COURAGE and BALLS to dust yourself off, and commit to meeting a new woman.

In contrast, it takes nothing but self-pity and a lack of self-confidence to sit at home, feeling sorry for yourself, dreaming up silly ways to try and get your ex-back.

#5: You’re Denying Yourself The Chance to Find The Very Best Woman for You…

Ultimately, remember this:

You and your ex-girl split up for a reason. Most likely because you weren’t compatible in some fairly major way.

In other words – no matter how much you liked each other, there was a ‘deal breaker’ in the relationship.

And, for that reason – you weren’t meant to be.

At this point, the mature realisation to have is that to pursue her – despite having already split up once – would be to hold yourself back from finding ‘Miss Right’ and to hold her back from finding ‘Mr Right’.

That’s like self-harm (towards yourself), and self-abuse (towards her).

See what I mean when I said I was gonna give you some Tough Love? 😉

95 times out of 100, trying to get your ex-back is a lousy idea. You’d be far better off remembering fondly the good points about your ex, and the nice experiences you had with her – while simultaneously moving on and committing to finding someone you are truly compatible with.

That said, if you insist on buying one of those horrible ‘get your ex back’ programs – here’s one. And, here’s another.

Just don’t say I didn’t warn you!

Talk soon…

Your friend,

Adam Armstrong
P.S. If you’re ready to MAN UP, and find a new woman – there are a couple things you really need:

1. To be able to perform in the bedroom. Rock Hard Formula will help you do that

2. Secret Seduction Spray – a unique Pheromone Spray that’ll make you way more attractive to women