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By Adam Armstrong  

Sex is an interesting thing…

Many people foolishly, though probably mostly subconsciously, choose QUANTITY over QUALITY.

Sex can be the most pleasurable, exciting part of any day. Something that makes you feel truly alive. Or, it can be really quite boring and disappointing.

Men are much more easily sexually pleased than women. Show most men a wet hole, and they’ll fuck it.

However, when a high quality woman meets the right now – and he understands how to work her body and mind – the true extent of female sexuality can be seen. And, a man who succeeds in liberating a woman in this way realizes that women are, in fact, much more sexual than men.

Sadly, most people have no idea what GREAT SEX truly is, because most “Sex Teachers”… “Sex Gurus”… “Sex Writers” and so on, are truly lame…

And for that reason, in this blog post, I’m going to share:

7 Sexual Truths Most Mainstream ‘Sex Experts’ Won’t Tell You About Sex…

So strap on your big boy (or big girl) pants, try not to get all offended, and read on carefully…

1. Women Are More Sexual Than Men

Most people think men are more SEXUAL than women.

You’ll hear men talk about women being ‘frigid’ because they don’t want to have sex.

You’ll sometimes hear women marvel at how men can be ‘turned on’ by the slightest thing, and how men want sex so often.

Yet, here’s the truth…

Most women have only ever had CRAP sex (to prove my point, consider the fact that studies show approximately 30% of women have NEVER had an orgasm).

If you, as a man, never had an orgasm, how much sex would you want?

Exactly.

Not so much.

However, once a woman is liberated by a man who ‘gets it’ – by a dominant man who leads her through wildly sexual adventures…

Giving her MULTIPLE ORGASMS every time…

Then the true extent of her sexuality – and “sexual appetite” – comes to life.

I’m not too ‘big’ to admit this fact…

Whenever I have liberated a woman, sexually, her SEX-DRIVE has always ended up BIGGER than mine!

It’s just a pleasure and mechanics thing…

A woman’s ability to experience ORGASM is limited only by how many convulsions (and SCREAMING) she can take, before she needs to rest!

A man, on the other hand, must ‘get it up’ – and this requires testosterone, sexual energy and other things that are easily ‘depleted’ and then need to be replenished via rest.

The good news is…

When you sexually liberate a woman, and give her incredible sex, complete with MULTIPLE ORGASMS every time, she doesn’t hate you for not always being able to keep up with her…

She LOVES you for the sexual liberation you have given her. For the pleasure you gave her, that:

A. No other man had ever done

B. She didn’t even know was possible

So, that’s the first thing mainstream sex advice as COMPLETELY WRONG…

This stupid idea that men are more sexual than women. In fact, women are about 10X as sexual as men, if not more so.

2. For Women to Experience Maximum Sexual Pleasure, They Have to be Submissive

The question is…

How, exactly, do you get a woman to ‘let go’ and experience MULTIPLE ORGASMS every time (when 30% of women have never had an orgasm, either solo, or with the company of a man)?

The answer, is it’s simplest sense, is:

You have to allow them to be SUBMISSIVE…

You see, women are naturally submissive. They naturally want to follow. They do not naturally want to ‘call the shots.’

All of which means…

3. Men Are Supposed to be Sexually Dominant

And this is the BIG PROBLEM.

Most men have no idea how to be sexually dominant, or they are afraid to do so.

Many young men today have grown up being told that men and women are the same…

They’ve grown up watching Hollywood often portray men as pathetic weaklings… meanwhile, 95lbs superbabes kick butt in fights with evil superbadies.

Here’s the truth…

Men, in general, are BIGGER and STRONGER than women. FACT.

Men, from an evolutionary perspective, are designed to PROVIDE and PROTECT. Fact.

Given those 2 facts, does it then make sense that women should be DOMINANT in bed, and men should roll over and ‘take it?’

No. No, that does not make sense.

Given men are bigger and stronger than women, and given that women look to men for PROVISION and PROTECTION…

It makes perfect evolutionary sense that men should be DOMINANT in the bedroom, and women should be SUBMISSIVE.

And, all this really means, in simple terms, is that the man should instigate the sex, and then lead his woman through it (at least most of the time).

Things work so much more smoothly this way…

Allowing the woman to ‘give in’ and ‘let go’…

Putting the man in his rightful place in the bedroom – in the place of CONTROL.

As a man, you have to learn to relish being in control, leading your woman, and liberating her sexually.

As a woman, you have to find a man capable of leading you (which in this day and age, is easier said than done).

4. The Clitoris is Overrated

Here’s another point that’ll get me some HATE from those who are ignorant (which is a lot of people)…

The clitoris is overrated.

Do you know how often I touch my wife’s clit?

About once a year.

“Adam, you selfish man!” I hear you say.

“Adam, why don’t you want your woman to experience pleasure!” I hear you cry.

“Adam, don’t you know anything about the female body!” I hear you protest.

Wait. Wait. WAIT!

I give my wife extreme pleasure in the bedroom. Multiple orgasms every time.

I just don’t do it with clitoral stimulation.

You see, clitoral stimulation has 2 big drawbacks:

First, after a clitoral orgasm, the clitoris becomes too sensitive to touch (for most women). Meaning: if all you do is rub her clit, she’s only ever having ONE orgasm… and that’s not enough to keep her sex-drive high in the long-run.

Two, clitoral orgasm simply aren’t as powerful as other kinds of orgasm.

Don’t believe me?

In that case, you’ve never given your woman:

• Squirting orgasm
• Vaginal orgasms
• Mindgasms
• Anal orgasms
• Non-genital orgasms, and so on

There’s nothing wrong with clitoral orgasms. However, this MYTH that the clit is the only way to give a woman an orgasm is very limiting…

I mean, 30% of women have never had an orgasm (so clearly it doesn’t work for every woman).

And, most women only have ONE orgasm per session – usually as a result of oral sex, or rubbing their own clit during intercourse.

Now, which do you think would give a woman more pleasure…

• Oral sex, with ONE orgasm. Followed by 10 minutes of intercourse where the guy cums and the woman doesn’t (ie. fairly standard sex that many people have)

Or:

• Sex where they cum over and over again, multiple times, in multiple different ways – including multiple orgasms during intercourse

I mean, there’s no contest.

Option 2 is the winner.

The problem is, the mainstream sex advice – and a lot of advice from so-called “Sex Experts” – still tells you that rubbing that clit is the only way to ‘get a woman off.’

Read Bedroom Boss to discover dozens of ways to make a woman orgasm.

5. For a Woman, Sexuality is Mostly in Her Mind

This expands on the idea that the clitoris is overrated…

I’m going to tell you that female sexuality is actually much more in a woman’s MIND that it is between her legs.

Forget about the clitoris, vagina, G-Spot, A-Spot or whatever…

The real key to unlocking a woman’s true sexuality, and making her cum UNCONTROLLABLY, over and over again…

Is between her ears. In her brain.

The BRAIN is a woman’s Master Control Switch – the key to virtually unlimited pleasure.

Indeed, once I learned how to TALK women into ORGASM, it changed my understanding of sexuality forever (and really made a joke out of the idea that ‘men are more sexual than women.’ Yeah, right).

To learn how to talk women into orgasm – to give them Mindgasms – read Better In Bed, then Dirty Talk Phrases, and then Bedroom Boss. In that order.

6. Women Generally Have Much More Elaborate, Wild and Adventurous Fantasies than Men

Another myth perpetuated by the mainstream is this idea that men have DIRTY fantasies and women’s fantasies are boring and vanilla.

In general, the reverse is true!

And, if more men realized the things women fantasized about, more couples would be having much more exciting, fulfilling sex.

You see, men are generally very easily satisfied when it comes to sex.

The average bloke’s idea of a fantasy is seeing “a big pair of tits”…

Catching a glimpse up a pretty woman’s skirt on the Tennis Court…

Or some other simplistic sexual vision.

How about women?

Oh boy, women! 

Women have the CRAZIEST fantasies you could ever imagine – especially once they’ve been to bed with a man who has sexually liberated them and trained them to have multiple orgasms every time.

You don’t have to take my word for this either…

Because some time ago a book called “My Secret Garden” by Nancy Friday was published. And it contained fantasies from over 400 women…

Raging from relatively tame, to completely wild and over the top. It’s well worth reading to see the true extent of female sexuality (the types of women having the kinds of fantasies detailed in the book are not necessarily who you’d think).

7. Size is Not The Issue

I once heard a “Sex Expert” tell men that they should tell a woman how big (or small) they are ‘down there’…

Before they sleep with her the first time, so that she knows ‘what she’s working with.’

I’ve never heard such BAD advice in all my life.

This ‘advice’ implies that SIZE is the issue. The be all and end all.

The reality is that nothing could be further from the truth. Allow me to explain why:

• The first 2-3 inches of the vagina are most sensitive, and the vagina is not a never-ending cavern (so more and more inches is not better and better)
• A woman’s most important sexual organ is her BRAIN (her Mind) – and you don’t fuck her mind with your cock (you fuck it with your words, your voice)
• You can make a woman cum in many ways that do not involve her genitals (spanking orgasms, nipple orgasms, lip orgasms, neck orgasms, mindgasms and so on)
• Women are most turned on by confidence and dominance (and your size doesn’t have to affect these two things)
• Oftentimes, in porn, you see very well endowed men failing to give the women any orgasms whatsoever! (which kills the idea that ‘more size equals more orgasms’)

The idea that ‘size is the issue’ is very disempowering and confidence shattering for many men. And, very limiting for many women.

An interesting distinction is that women who’ve only ever had clitoral orgasms, or NO orgasms!, often say ‘size matters’ (because more size = more friction and feel, yet still no vaginal orgasms)

In contrast, women who have multiple orgasms, and vaginal orgasms, almost never say size is the issue (because they’ve come to realize that PLEASURE is the issue and it’s not size that guarantees that… it’s confidence, dominance, dirty talk, “making things naughty,” knowledge of the correct techniques, and so on).

For a real sex education, the kind you can’t get anywhere else, read Better In Bed, Dirty Talk Phrases, Bedroom Boss and thank me later. Your sex-life will improve greatly.

Got Questions, Comments, Feedback or Suggestions?

Leave Them In The Comments Section Below and I’ll Get Back to You ASAP…

Adam.