Adam Armstrong
Here’s an Example of How NOT to Be a Man (or: How to Be a Really BAD Father)
By Adam Armstrong
In my never-ending mission to teach human beings with penises how to ACT like MEN, I’d like to share a story with you…
My kids are now 3 and 5 years of age, and on a Saturday morning – after I’ve been to the gym and worked out with my training partners – I take them to their Gymnastics Class.
This is just about my favorite way to spend time…
Then hanging out with my kids and letting them do PHYSICAL stuff.
In this crazy day-and-age, where more and more schools are preventing kids from having ‘Playtime’, because they’re worried someone might graze a knee, I think it’s incredibly important to encourage our kids to be physical and develop some toughness…
After all, life isn’t always sweetness and roses. You have to deal with some shit, preferably without falling to pieces.
Anyhow, back to the gym…
My 3-year-old has done his gymnastics class, and he’s having his lunch, sat with me in the waiting area. The waiting area has tables and chairs, and a big glass wall, that lets you watch what the kids are doing in the gym.
So, I’m watching my 5-year-old, and this is where the “How NOT to Be a Man” story begins…
If My Woman Spoke to My Kids Like That, She’d Be in BIG TROUBLE…
So, there are 2 gymnastic teachers, teaching 8 kids, aged 5-6 years of age, including my 5-year-old.
All the kids are enjoying the class, listening to the teachers, and generally having a productive and fun time.
Except one.
Same kid every week…
A little boy who just doesn’t seem happy in the class.
He doesn’t join in. He runs off. He doesn’t listen to the teachers. He generally makes a nuisance of himself.
Here’s where things get interesting…
His parents were sat in the waiting area, a few tables away from me. They’re both big people… his Dad looks to be about 6”4, broad shouldered. A big dude. The mother looks about 5”10 (so tall for a woman) and at least 7 months pregnant.
As the scene unfolds, and their son runs riot in the class, the Dad just covers his mouth, sinks into his chair and doesn’t say a thing.
The mother, meanwhile, enters the gym a couple of times to try and calm the boy down, with no luck.
After her second failed attempt at getting the boy to join in with the class, she comes back into the waiting area, stands over her sheepish looking husband, and, like a CRAZY WOMAN, rants to him:
“He’s a shit”
“He’s a shit”
“He’s a shit”
“He’s a shit”
4 times she calls her 5 or 6 year old son “a shit” to his Dad. And, the Dad doesn’t say a word.
At this point, I’m thinking:
She’s a CRAZY BITCH.
And he’s so WEAK it’s unreal.
Then it gets worse…
Some of The Worst Parenting, and Weakest Male Behaviour I’ve Ever Seen…
After saying “he’s a shit” to the Dad several times, the heavily pregnant mother decides she’s had enough.
So, she enters the gym, and literally DRAGS her son out, by the arm.
She drags him out of the gym, into the waiting area. She then lets go of his arm, points at the door, which is about 5 yards away, and SCREAMS (like a Bat Shit Crazy Bitch), in front of 5 or 6 sets of other parents, and other gym staff:
“Out! Out! Out! Out! Out! Out!”
And when I say she SCREAMED, I mean SCREAMED.
She’s clearly out of her mind, for 3 reasons:
Firstly, screaming like that, at your young child, is CHILD ABUSE. Period. If you’re only way of communication is to raise your voice, that’s your problem, not the child’s!
Secondly, if she had half a brain in her head, she’d put 2 and 2 together and realize that this kid obviously doesn’t like Gymnastics! So, let him do something else! (Why do so many parents force their kids to do activities they don’t like? It’s moronic)
Thirdly, her UNBORN child, that’s still in her belly, will be STRESSED by her anger. Anyone who doesn’t ‘get this’ needs a, wake up call.
But, less of her.
She’s OUT OF CONTROL.
So, what about the Dad?
Well, he’s so WEAK it actually made me feel sick. A really big dude, who doesn’t dare say shit to his crazy wife.
There’s no way on earth he should allow her to talk to his son like that. And, if he had half a brain in his head, he’d realize his kid misbehaves because he clearly has no interest in the gymnastics class. Of course, there’s probably a lot more to it than that (but, I don’t know what goes on inside their home).
My point here though, is that men need to act like MEN.
When women act all crazy, teach them. Control them. Discipline them! Otherwise they run wild.
Can You Imagine What Kind of Dysfunctional Relationship These Two Have?
I can tell you the basics of it…
He does as he’s told.
She’s ridiculously demanding.
He basically HATES her.
And, it’ll end in one of 3 ways:
- One day he’ll KILL her. He’ll literally snap and just kill her (unlikely, but possible)
- One day he’ll leave her – he’ll simply ‘trade her in’ for a younger, prettier, NICER model (Very possible)
- He’ll just accept it. And resent her for the rest of his miserable life (also very possible – this happens all the time)
You have to understand…
Women are very emotional creatures. They need some ‘tough love’. They need some education (from their men).
And, if we don’t give them that ‘tough love’ and education, they will drive us completely crazy.
RANT OVER.
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Got comments?
Leave ‘em below and I’ll get back to you ASAP…
Oh, and if you want to be a better man, read my book Better In Bed. It’ll change your life. I promise. And, take some Rock Hard Formula – because it’ll increase your Testosterone Levels, and that’ll help you to act more in a more MANLY way.
7 Comments
William Brent-Emeka Moore
24/09/2019 - 10:31 amHI THIS IS BRENT I’VE BUSY AND BEEN STRESSFUL ON ALOT OF WORK TO DO ,I’M IN A SITUATION WHERE I HAVE NO GIRL FRIEND AND HAVE NO KIDS AT 44 BUT ,Y WHOLE LIFE BEEN BY MYSELF AND I HAVE PROBELMS THAT I’M GOING TREW RIGHT NOW, I DON’T KNOW IF I CAN FIX AND HAVE SEX ANYMORE I’M JUST NEED TO GET IN SHAPE AND CLEAN OUT MY SYSTEM FROM A LOT OF JUNK FOOD AND NEED TO GAIN MY ENERGY BACK TO THE MOOD AGAIN . ITS BEEN TOO LONG FOR ME I’VE BECAME A HERMET IN THE MUSIC WORLD SO I KNOW THAT I PROBABLY HAVE A LOT OF FANS BUT THAT DON’T MEAN THAT I WILL GET LAID WITH THEM WITH THE PROBLEMS THAT I’M GOING THREW , SO IF YOU ADAM HAVE SOME ADVICE FOR ME PLEASE SHARE IT ON MY EMAIL OR GMAIL FOR BETTER RESULTS ON HOW TO BE A BETTER MAN, A STUD
Adam Armstrong
28/09/2019 - 3:18 amHey William, first off, drop the idea that ‘you can’t fix your problems’ because if you believe that, it will be your reality! So, adopt the belief that you CAN fix them! That’s Step 1.
Next step is to work on yourself…
Exercise, sleep well, eat well, drink lots of water, meditate and so on.
Take Rock Hard Formula to give you a confident edge – inside and outside of the bedroom
Then, get back out into the world and start interacting with people
I could go on, but you know what to do! You just gotta do it! CONSISTENTLY 🙂
Terry
24/09/2019 - 8:26 amYour right (to a point) you do not know what other problems exist in their relationship or the child’s physical or mental conditions.
Because of this I will not call anyone else out.
As the parent of a child with DMDD and ADHD, the outside world looking in on the situation have very strong opinions. “That kid needs discipline”, “If That was my kid, I’d “, “They are not good patents”, “Someone needs to call Child Protective Services” and many more remarks from people who “think they know ALL the answers” but Do Not Know Squat.
Me, I’m a 10 year US Navy Veteran, 20 year Retired Law Enforcement and own a Ranching Service business in Texas. My wife is a Nurse. We have 4 successful adult children. One owns her own business, one is a RN working to become a Doctor, and 2 work in Law Enforcement.
We adopted our 10 year old 6 years ago. He was our GrandNephew. His parents, our Nephew and his wife, continued to stay in a drug and alcohol induced state and they, and others, abused and neglected him for the first 3 and half years of his life and to this day we have only scratched the surface of what abuses occurred.
Normal discipline does not work and we have to try and expose him in many different ways to socialize him, To This Day.
Some days they are productive and some days they are not. We are learning everyday, some new problem or way of dealing with the problem of the day or moment.
If you was to sit and ask that child how they feel about going to that class. They would probably tell you, it’s the highlight of their day, how much they love their teachers and other participants.
Before you publicly call someone out about their ‘Manhood’ or ‘parenting skills’. Understand something, you are only getting a momentary glimpse of what they are dealing with.
A pregnant mother can be very emotional and every Mother, will beat themselves up for weeks after an incident.
And there are times you just have to keep your mouth shut,
And Like A Man, talk about in private and not make a already public incident a ‘YouTube’ post.
Because a ‘MAN’ will handle it in private!
Walk a mile in someone’s shoes? I dare you to walk 100 yards and then try and criticize them.
That’s my rant.
Adam Armstrong
28/09/2019 - 3:22 amTerry, it’s interesting how similar your situation is to my Parents, in terms of the child you are now looking after.
And, I get all your points.
I will, however, say two things:
1. I didn’t call anyone out in public. I never mentioned names, so no one is embarrassed or ashamed
2. Feeling bad about something AFTER you do it, doesn’t make it right, especially if you do it over and over again (as the parents in question, in my blog post seemed to do, based on my observations in the Gymnastics School. To continually abuse children, because you’re ‘stressed’ or because the child is ‘difficult’, is, in my opinion, simply unacceptable)
Adam Armstrong
28/09/2019 - 3:23 amAlso, I get that in the Military, there’s a lot of SHOUTING that goes on, to get people to do as they’re told.
But, again, in my opinion, that’s no way to raise a child. Shouting at a child (unless they’re in danger or something like that) is usually just a lack of communication skills
David
24/09/2019 - 7:32 amSounds like a very henpecked husband to me.
Adam Armstrong
28/09/2019 - 3:13 amHe was that for sure. And, sadly, many guys are the same