Want to Make Her Cum so Hard Her Eyes Roll Back in Her Head? Here’s how…

By Adam Armstrong

For many women, oral sex is their favorite part of sex.

Yet, in my experience, based on conversations with hundreds of women, most men are LOUSY at giving women oral sex

Recently I did some research to see what mainstream men’s websites were saying about “giving women oral sex.”

Here Are 8 of The Most Common Oral Sex Tips for Men (and My Comments on Each)…

1. Start Slow: 

The key to giving a woman an orgasmic oral sex experience is to start slow. Take your time and tease her with slow, gentle licks and kisses. Don’t rush things and take your time to get her aroused.

My Comments:

This is okay advice, and “starting slow” can certainly work.

However, once you really unleash a woman’s WILD SIDE – oftentimes there’s no need to start slow (and she won’t want you to start slow).

Sometimes you can get her so hot and horny that all you need to do is rip her knickers off, lick her clit, stick 2 fingers inside her, and she’ll be coming 30 seconds later.

To learn HOW to unleash this level of sexuality in your woman, read Bedroom Boss.

2. Listen to Her Body: 

Pay attention to her body language and the sounds she makes. This will help you understand what she’s enjoying and what she’s not. Adjust your technique based on her reactions.

My Comments

This is actually great advice. You cannot just keep doing something because you read or heard it works. You need to pay attention to how your woman is responding.

Responses to different sex techniques do vary from woman to woman and day to day. Always pay attention to the feedback she’s giving you – sometimes she’ll just tell you what she wants. Other times you need to figure it out based on what the noises she’s making and the way her body is responding to your touch.

3. Be Confident: 

Women are drawn to confident men, so make sure you exude confidence when you’re giving her oral sex. Don’t be afraid to be a little adventurous and try new things.

My Comments:

Great advice!

But let’s expand on it…

When you’re licking her out, do it like you mean it! Do it like you ENJOY it! Make some noise, tell her how good she tastes and how good she smells. This will drive her crazy and get her to orgasm so much faster! Read Dirty Talk Phrases to learn more about WHAT TO SAY during sex.

4. Don’t Rush: 

Don’t rush to finish. Take your time and enjoy the moment. This is a great way to ensure that she has an amazing orgasmic experience.

My Comments:

Don’t Rush is sound advice.

But, that doesn’t mean oral sex has to take forever. As I said earlier, sometimes she can be cumming within seconds of you “going down on her” – IF you know how to TURN HER ON properly (hint: being dominant and leading her is the way to get a woman really hot and bothered).

5. Use Your Fingers: 

Using your fingers during oral sex is a great way to stimulate her in different ways. Experiment with different techniques and find out what feels best for her.

My Comments:

Stimulate her in the right places with your fingers, while you’re licking her clit, and you’ll give her a blended vaginal/clitoral orgasm that’ll blow her mind.

I explain exactly how to do it in The Amazing Orgasm Secret (grab a copy, use the technique on your woman tonight, thank me later!)

6. Be a Bad Boy:

Studies have shown that women are more likely to have an orgasm with a bad boy or alpha male. So show her your wild side and make sure you’re in control.

My Comments:

Bad Boys lie and cheat and treat women like crap. So, I don’t think you should try to be a bad boy.

Instead, take the positive elements of a bad boy – adventurousness, creativity, unpredictableness etc – but still be honest, trustworthy and so on (if you master this balance, and you get good in bed, you can have pretty much any woman you want).

7. Talk Dirty: 

Talk dirty to her during oral sex. This will help her get into the mood and make the experience more pleasurable.

My Comments:

Great advice. But, what exactly should you say while you’re licking her out?

Here are some lines that work like a charm, so long as you deliver them confidently…

“You smell so fucking good”

“You taste so fucking good

“I’m going to make you come all over my tongue”

“You’re so fucking wet, I can’t wait to be inside you”

8. Vary Your Movements: 

Don’t stick to the same technique. Experiment with different strokes, licks and kisses. This will keep her guessing and make sure she has an amazing experience.

My Comments:

This is the typical kind of vague, wishy washy sex advice men are used to receiving and it’s not really helpful.

What I’d suggest is:

• Find the movement your woman responds best to (this might be licking her clit up and down, side to side, or even humming on it, as I explain in Better In Bed)
• Do that movement
• Keep doing it
• When you can sense she’s close to orgasm, increase the speed and pressure somewhat (not too much) and continue until she climaxes (then fuck her senseless)

Closing Thoughts:

Hopefully this blog post has given you some ideas that you can use to give your woman better oral sex.

However, I also want you to keep in mind the following FACT:

Most women think oral sex is the best part of sex because they have never had GREAT sex!

Give a woman multiple vaginal orgasms during intercourse, without rubbing her clit, and she’ll no longer crave oral…

She may still enjoy it…

But, she’ll mostly want your cock between her legs!

How do you give her multiple vaginal orgasms during intercourse, without clitoral stimulation?

In a nutshell…

Be dominant…

Talk dirty (to stimulate her mentally)…

Use the correct orgasm techniques (as described in Bedroom Boss)

Got questions or comments? Leave them below and I’ll get back to you asap…

Thanks for reading, and have a great day…

Your friend,

Adam Armstrong