Women Secretly Love Dominant Men in The Bedroom – Here’s How to Be That Guy in 7 Simple Steps…

By Adam Armstrong

Men are supposed to be Sexually Dominant. And, women want to be Sexually Submissive in the bedroom.

It’s as simple as that.

If you want PROOF, consider Pornography.

Men are very visual. Therefore, they watch porn, and, for most guys – the simple act of looking at people having sex is enough for them to ‘get off’.

For women, things are different. For women, their version of porn are Romance Novels and Erotic Fiction. More of these books are sold than any other, and they’re virtually all bought by women.

A key theme in these kinds of books – including the insanely popular 50 Shades of Grey Trilogy – is that the lead male character (the one women masturbate over!) is always DOMINANT.

Here’s the Good News for you:

Most men are not dominant. They aren’t aware that women want to go to bed with a dominant man, and they have no idea how to be dominant.

So, when you ‘step up’ and embrace the FACT that women are Sexually Dominant – and you take on the role of the leader in the bedroom – women will LOVE you for it.

Here is Exactly How to Be A Dominant Man in The Bedroom – in 7 Simple Steps…

#1: Instigate…

Most men, especially in long-term relationships, ASK for sex. They BEG for it. They try and do stuff – like household chores – in exchange for it.

They even BUY STUFF in the hope of getting it (which is kinda like prostitution when you think about it – even if she is your wife!)

A dominant man doesn’t ask for sex. Ever.

He instigates it. Period.

#2: Take Control and Lead…

Women are Sexually Submissive – meaning: they do not want to be ‘in charge’ in the bedroom.

The dominant man understands this, respects it, and embraces it. And, therefore: he TAKES CONTROL and LEADS his woman in the bedroom.

Here are 3 examples of taking control and leading your woman in the bedroom:

• Take her by the hand and lead her to the bedroom

• When she’s ‘on top’ and you want to fuck her doggy-style, simply say: “Baby, get on your knees so I can fuck you from behind

• When she’s blowing you, give her direction. For instance: “Baby, that feels so fucking good. Suck me harder”

#3: Fuck Her Mind…

For women, sex is a very MENTAL thing.

The average man doesn’t ‘get’ this. So, he focuses solely on her clit and pussy.

BIG MISTAKE.

The dominant man understands that what is most important in the bedroom are not the holes between your woman’s legs, but rather – the 6 inches between her ears! Her MIND.

As a dominant man, you must stimulate your woman’s mind in the bedroom with Dirty Talk. Do this and ‘getting her off’ over and over again becomes EASY.

#4: Be Creative…

Most men ‘do it’ the same way every time. This becomes BORING and PREDICTABLE for the woman, and sooner or later she stops wanting it.

Not good.

The dominant man is extremely CREATIVE in the bedroom.

One night he makes love to his woman, softly and gently.

The next night he ties her up, TEASES her to breaking point, then makes her cum so HARD she soaks the bed.

Later that week he takes her to the cinema, deliberately chooses a quiet movie with few people watching, and fingers her to multiple orgasms without anyone else realizing what he’s doing…

The secret here, in the cinema, in case you’re wondering, is to say:

“Baby, cum in silence”

You MUST tell her to do this, otherwise everyone will realize what’s going on and you’ll get in some serious trouble! 🙂

If you’re not naturally creative in bed, read some romance novels and you’ll soon discover what kind of SEX women like to read about. And, guess what? They’d like it even better if you helped them experience it ‘for real’ – as opposed to simply reading about it in a book!

#5: Make The Sex Naughty…

Contrary to what many men think… women are much dirtier, and kinkier in bed than they think.

In fact, it’s my experience that all emotionally healthy women like NAUGHTY sex. They like it to be dirty and taboo.

Things that can be considered ‘naughty’ include:

• Spanking

• Restraining

• Dirty Talk

• Anal Play

• Public situations

• Role Play

• Threesomes

And so on.

As a dominant man, embrace the fact that women love these things, and introduce them into your sexual adventures. You’re woman will love you for it!

#6: OWN Everything You Say and Do in The Bedroom…

Women love confident men.

One way to be confident – and a key trait for a truly DOMINANT man – is to only say and do things that you feel completely comfortable with.

Only say and do things in the bedroom that you OWN.

If you do otherwise… if you try and do something, or say something, because you think you should do it, or say it, your woman will sense something is ‘off’ and she won’t respond as well.

#7: Give Her A Lot of Orgasms…

Of course, this is the ‘Master Trait’ of the truly dominant lover…

Where most men struggle to give their women ONE orgasm per ‘session’ – the dominant lover is highly skilled and can make his woman cum over and over again.

And, honestly, this is what truly makes women addicted to dominant men… the PLEASURE. The ORGASMS.

The fact that she knows that with a dominant man they’ll be no awkward moments. They’ll be no pathetic questions, like:

“Honey, did you cum?” (Hint: if you have to ask, the answer is “NO”)

Instead, she can just get lost in the experience, and enjoy endless pleasure… with a MASTER of PLEASURE!

Dominance can be about black masks, whips and chains. But, it’s never really been about that for me. It’s been much more about the 7 things I just listed for you above.

Try ‘em out with your woman and watch  what happens. You’ll like the results a lot!

To learn more about how to be the sexually dominant, dirty talk badass your woman is secretly craving in the bedroom – read my Bedroom Boss program. It’ll change your life. Thank me later 😉

Adam Armstrong