Here Are 5 Huge Mistakes to Avoid When You Go On a First Date with a Woman…

By Adam Armstrong

Most men are completely CLUELESS when it comes to women, and dating.

So, the Good News is:

You don’t actually have to do that much – when you take a woman out on a first date – to really stand out from all the other guys, and seem like a ‘total catch’ in her eyes.

That thought in mind, here are:

5 Mistakes to Make When You Take a Woman on a First Date…

#1: Calling It a ‘Date’!

Most people – both men and women – find the idea of going a first date to be somewhat nerve-wrecking. They get anxious and stressed about it.

They worry.

They drive themselves mad.

They ‘big it up’ to be something HUGE.

Calling it a ‘date’ only makes things worse. It adds to the pressure.

I don’t think I ever asked a woman out on a DATE in my life! No joke. Instead, I’d always suggest:

“Meeting for a coffee”.

“Grabbing a quick bite to eat for lunch”.

Or:

“Getting a quick drink after work”.

See how much more RELAXED that is?

See how much easier it is for a woman to say “YES” to that kind of invitation, and feel comfortable about turning up?

As opposed to:

“Hey, I’ve booked us a 5 hour, 7 course meal at the swankiest restaurant in town. Here’s a checklist of things you need to wear”.

So, forget about ‘first dates’… and, instead, frame it in your mind more like this:

A way to meet a woman, for 20 or 30 minutes, and get to know her a little better. It takes the PRESSURE off both you and her. And, that can only be a good thing.

#2: Paying for Everything…

Urgh.

This makes me cringe.

Guys think they can BUY their way into a woman’s panties.

I often gauged a woman’s level of integrity by what she voluntarily paid for a on first date! If she offered to buy my drink, or if I got the first drinks, and she got the second… I always thought that was a great sign.

A sign of a woman who wasn’t a Golddigger.

However, if the woman just assumed I’d pay. Or, worse… EXPECTED me to pay – I’d immediately put her on the ‘do not contact again’ list.

So please, buy all means buy your woman dinner, and shower her with gifts – once you’re in a relationship with her! But, don’t do any of that before she’s sucked your dick.

#3: Taking Her Out to Dinner…

The ‘Dinner Date’ is just so full of PRESSURE.

I’m telling you… most women would rather meet for a quick coffee, as a first date, instead of going to dinner.

Going to dinner brings up all kinds of negativity in her mind – including:

“What the hell do I do if I can’t stand him? I won’t be able to leave”!

Therefore:

The ‘Dinner Date’ dramatically increases the chances of her flaking on you, and not turning up.

Instead, do something low pressure…

Coffee…

A drink at a bar…

Grabbing a quick sandwich on your lunch break.

This is all so much easier for her to agree to – and she doesn’t have to worry so much about what to wear, and how to end the date if you and her just don’t ‘click’.

#4: Asking Her What She’s Looking For…

This is the worst question to ask on a first date with a woman:

“So, what are you looking for in a guy?”

I mean, WHY.

Why the heck do men ask these kinds of lame questions?

It’s so HIGH PRESSURE.

It puts her ‘on the spot’ – and makes most women very uncomfortable.

Keep the conversation light hearted on a first date. Be confident. Make her laugh. Comment on something cool she’s wearing.

Don’t ask her to tell you how many kids she wants, or how she imagines the rest of her life panning out.

That’s just too much, too soon!

#5: Being Too Needy…

Men these days are so emasculated, and weak.

And that makes them act all NEEDY.

And, since neediness is kind of the exact opposite of CONFIDENCE – and women love confident men – now you know why it’s so hard for women to get excited about today’s average guy.

DO NOT act needy on a date.

If she checks her phone on a first date – that’s okay. Don’t start interrogating her over who it is.

Don’t be too interested at the end of the date. Tell her you’ll call her, if she’s lucky. Said playfully, with a wink, women love that kinda thing.

In contrast, if you push really hard for that second date, you just come across as super NEEDY, totally lacking confidence, and totally lacking other options.

Why is it bad to let a woman know that she’s your only option?

Because it tells her that you’re not that desirable. That other women aren’t interested in you!

Now, listen.

If you really want to have SUCCESS on first dates – and effortlessly make women wildly attracted to you – you need to get yourself a bottle of Secret Seduction Spray.

THIS page will tell you everything you need to know

Give it a read now, and I’ll talk to you soon,

Adam Armstrong