Here Are 13 of The Most Common Mistakes that Turn Women Off and Make Them Sexually Disinterested in You…

By Adam Armstrong

I think the title of this blog post is self-explanatory!  

So, let’s just dive straight into the list of mistakes you want to avoid making in the bedroom (unless you enjoy hearing those infamous words over and over again: “Not tonight Honey”)

1. Ignoring Foreplay

I’ll be the last person on the planet to tell you that you need to give a woman 30 minutes of FOREPLAY before she even stands a chance of reaching climax.

That’s a losers mind-set.

Truth is…

You can train any woman to orgasm remarkably quickly, and over and over again.

So, I’m certainly not saying that you have to lick your woman’s pussy for 3 hours before you f**k her senseless. Nothing wrong with doing that, on occasion, but you don’t have to.

And, please understand that all these women who tell you they need 30 minutes of oral before they can cum, have simply never been with a guy who gets it. Period.

What I’m referring to as “Foreplay” is all the stuff you do to CONNECT with your woman OUTSIDE of the bedroom. If you skimp on this kind of Foreplay, when the sex does happen, she’ll just feel like you’re USING her.

So, be sure to do the following things that create that deep emotional connection:

• Be a good listener
• Pay her sincere compliments
• Support her when she needs it
• Appreciate her

Not a difficult list, is it?

And, if you do that, she’ll be WET for you ALL THE TIME (assuming you don’t screw up your good work by making any of the other 12 mistakes on this list!)…

2. Turning Up with a ‘Broken Stick’

You know what I’m saying here, right?

If you turn up with a limp noodle…

With a BROKEN BONER…

You’re in BIG TROUBLE.

After all, what man can blame a woman for losing interest in him sexually, if his Sexual Organ doesn’t work!

Here are a few tips to help you get harder, more reliable erections:

• Eat healthily
• Stay hydrated at all times
• De-stress
• Exercise regularly
• Take Rock Hard Formula (to boost Testosterone)
• Take Go All Night (to increase your Tolerance to Stress)

Pro Tip: Take both Rock Hard and Go All Night for MAXIMUM Erection Quality.

3. Being Predictable

Most men just want to ‘get their dicks wet.’ That’s about as evolved as most guys are in bed.

Trouble is…

That mind-set tends to lead to sex where the guy does the same tired crap over and over again. Making it PREDICTABLE for the woman.

Then he wonders why she loses interest!

Remember this:

Predictability is the total ENEMY of the female sex-drive. Make it different, and keep her guessing, every single time.

4. Making it Too “Vanilla”

Lights off, missionary position.

That’s ok. Sometimes.

But, most of the time, women actually want it harder, nastier and dirtier.

Women are way dirtier than most men can comprehend.

They want their hair to be grabbed, asses to be spanked. They want you to talk dirty. They want you to restrain them. They want a finger in their ass while you’re doing them from behind.

Don’t be afraid to make it a little RISKY!

Got it?

Good.

Moving on…

5. Failing to Make Her Orgasm, Multiple Times

Here’s the biggest MISTAKE on this entire list…

Failing to give her Multiple Orgasms. 

If you aren’t doing that 9 times out of 10, you’re in trouble.

Trust me…

Her sex-drive will dry up faster than a puddle in a desert. 

You HAVE TO make her ORGASM, Multiple Times. Do THAT and she’ll see you as a Sex-God and she’ll be totally addicted to you.

It’s that simple.

Read Ultimate Orgasm Techniques to learn more. Thank me later.

6. Comparing Her to An Ex

No woman wants to be compared to an ex lover/girlfriend/wife etc.

Avoid any comparisons in this area.

Nuff said.

7. Asking Her About Her Previous Lovers

There’s an old joke that goes something like:

“If you ask a man how many women he’s slept with, he’ll TRIPLE the true number. Ask a woman, and she’ll reduce it to a third of the true number”

Any high value woman wants to PROTECT her sexual reputation. She doesn’t want to talk to you about her previous lovers, or make you think she’s slept with lots of men.

If she happens to tell you that you’re so much better than any other man she’s even been with, that’s great (and, if you read my programs, that’s exactly what you’ll hear on a regular basis), just don’t ask her about her previous lovers…

It’s a mistake. 

Nothing good is likely to come from it.

All that’ll probably happen is: you’ll make her feel uncomfortable, and she may LIE to you to protect her reputation. And, you really don’t want to train her to lie to you!

8. Forgetting about “Pillow Talk”

After sex, take a few minutes to talk to your woman. Focus on light hearted conversation.

A few minutes chat goes a long way after you’ve BANGED her BRAINS out.

If you just roll over and go to sleep after you ‘blow your load’ – she’ll likely feel used and like you don’t really care about her.

So avoid the mistake of forgetting about “Pillow Talk” – a little goes A LONG way!

9. Always Keeping it “In The Bedroom”

This is another example – maybe the most common example – of making things too PREDICTABLE.

Sure, most of the time it’s fine to have sex in the bedroom…

But, do it ALL THE TIME, and the thrill fades…

Do it in other rooms in the house… do it OUTSIDE… do it in a hotel. Just don’t make the mistake of always doing it in the bedroom!

10. Bragging to Your Friends about Your Sexual Exploits

Look, I get it…

It can be fun to WOW! Your buddies with your sexual exploits… 

…especially if you’ve started using Go All Night Formula and you’ve lasted long enough to turn your woman’s legs to jello… or, if you’ve read my Bedroom Boss Program and given her ORGASMS so intense she’s crying tears of pure joy 😉

However, on the whole, it’s best to NOT “kiss and tell” – for reasons I touched on earlier…

You see, as a MAN, sex is quite simple:

You ‘get laid’ and “You DA Man”… your buddies want to High 5 you… and, in many ways, it makes you more ATTRACTIVE to other women (because women want what other women have).

For a woman, things are different…

If you tell your buddies about how you screwed your woman in the ass and then she let you cum in her mouth… well, sure, they’re gonna high 5 you (and probably feel envious inside). But, if they go back to their wives, who also know your wife, and then they all talk, well…

Women can be kinda bitchy. And, that kind of sexual behaviour – fun as it is! – can get a woman LABELLED with all kinds of Unfair and Undesirable Names.

So…

Enjoy your woman, do it right. For sure.

Just don’t make the MISTAKE of telling everyone about it afterwards!

11. Expecting Her to “Take The Lead”

How many times do I have to say THIS:

Women are SEXUALLY SUBMISSIVE.

Meaning:

As a MAN, you need to be SEXUALLY DOMINANT. You need to instigate, you need to take the lead (at least most of the time).

Failing to do this is a HUGE MISTAKE.

In fact, it’ll cause your woman to lose attraction for you, and ‘getting her off’ will be a problem! And, you remember why ‘failing to get her off’ is a MISTAKE, right? (If you’ve forgotten, go back and read point 5 – it’s probably the most important point on this entire list of mistakes!)

12. Blowing Your Load too Soon

We’ve all ‘shot too soon’ on occasion, and that’s okay.

In fact, sometimes a woman wants you to cum quickly, because it shows her how much she turns you on!

However, if you’re routinely FAILING to last long enough to give her Multiple Orgasms during Intercourse – that’s a problem.

After all, if YOU always get to CUM, shouldn’t she?

PRACTICAL ADVICE: if you have trouble lasting long enough in bed – try Go All Night Formula.

13. Apologizing Like a Wuss

Let’s say you do ‘blow your load too soon’…

Or, let’s say once in a blue moon you can’t ‘get it up’…

What you gonna do?

APOLOGIZE like a WUSS?

That’d be a huge mistake.

I remember once dating this girl, and because of our travel schedules, we hadn’t seen each other for nearly 3 weeks.

On the plane and train home, I was thinking about sleeping with her pretty much non-stop. When I finally got my hands on her, I was so TURNED ON I must have lasted about 30 seconds!

Yet it led to one of the best nights of sex we ever had.

How?

Because after cumming almost immediately, I didn’t act like a wimp and apologize, I fingered her and licked her out for a while – getting her off several times. Then, once I’d recovered, I f***ed her properly, and we had RAMPANT sex several times that night.

So yeah, don’t be a WUSS.

If things don’t go to plan – and in life, nothing goes to plan 100% of the time – find a way to OWN it.

A few suggestions:

• If you have problems ‘getting it up’ – check out Rock Hard
• If you have problems lasting long enough – grab some Go All Night
• For the World’s best Orgasm Techniques – it’s Ultimate Orgasm Techniques
• And, to discover more about dirty talk, dominance and advanced secrets for giving women insane levels of pleasure – it’s Bedroom Boss

Enjoy!

Adam

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