How to Write a Dating Profile for a Man (to Attract High Quality Women) -

Here Are 7 Tips for Writing a Successful Online Dating Profile that’ll Capture The Attention of Hot, Sexy, Intelligent Women…

By Adam Armstrong

Online Dating is an amazing way to meet women. In fact, when I was single, it became one of my 2 favorite ways to meet women…

…the other being what ‘Pick Up Artists’ refer to as ‘Day Game’. Day Game being the ability to just strike up a conversation with a woman anywhere – be it on the street, at the gym, in a coffee shop, wherever.

But, for many men – Day Game is TOUGH.

And, for many men, the usual ways to meet women – such as going to Bars and Nightclubs – simply aren’t appealing.

In fact, I never liked Bars and Nightclubs much myself (as a ‘Morning Person’ and somebody who doesn’t drink alcohol or take drugs – these LOUD, noisy environments just didn’t suit me). Hence the reason why I ended up mastering Day Game and Online Dating.

In this blog post, I’m going to share 7 tips with you that’ll help you to write a seriously good Online Dating Profile.

So…

If you want to meet red-hot women ONLINE – read on carefully:

Online Dating Profile Tip #1: Avoid THIS Opening Line…

Part of getting good at Online Dating involved me reading the profiles of other men! I did this to see what the COMPETITION was like (and, I very quickly found out that the competition was pretty poor. Thankfully)

I cannot believe how many MEN and WOMEN start their online dating profile with something along the lines of:

“Er, so, I really don’t know what to say here. LOL”

Holy crap!

There is nothing to ‘laugh out loud’ about that line.

All that says is:

“Hey, I’m really boring”

“Hey, I don’t have a life”

“Hey, I have no self-confidence”

“Hey, I think so little of myself that I cannot think of anything – not even ONE-freakin-miserable-little-thing I can tell you about myself”

Whenever I read kind of opening line on a woman’s dating profile, I’d click off it straight away. And, trust me on this – high quality women will do the same to any man if he starts his profile in this way.

It’s just lame. Avoid.

Online Dating Profile Tip #2: Write In Good English

Look. My old English Teacher’s from high school would probably HATE the way I write on my blog. Because, it’s not perfectly correct English.

However, I’ve mastered a way of writing that conversational and easy to understand. And, that’s what my readers, followers and customers want – so that’s what I do.

So, when I advise you to write your Online Dating Profile in ‘Good English’ – I don’t mean that you have to write in a way that’d help you ace a High-School English Exam.

But…

What I do mean is:

Don’t write in a way that makes you look like an IDIOT!

No high quality woman (a woman who is hot, sexy and intelligent), wants to date an IDIOT! And yet, if you write your profile how many guys write theirs – that’s exactly how you’ll come across.

A few pointers:

Start the first word of each sentence with a capital letter

If you use your name, capitalise the first letter of your name (ie. Adam, not adam)

Never, ever, write ‘i’. Instead, write ‘I’ (if you can’t be bothered to capitalise ‘I’ – it shows a lack of self-respect)

Write in short paragraphs (2-3 sentences max. Just like I do on my blog! It makes things so much easier to read)

If you don’t know how to spell something, look it up and correct it, before your dating profile goes live

This might all sound PAINFULLY obvious.

But, I’ve read so many profiles from MEN and WOMEN that are written in a quality of English so poor my 4 year old daughter would be ashamed to write it – that I really felt this point was absolutely necessary!

Online Dating Profile Tip #3: Choose a Great Picture

Your Online Dating Profile PICTURE matters. A lot.

I mean, it’s likely the first thing a woman will see when she checks out your profile. So, you could have the best written profile in the world, but if your picture SUCKS – she might click off your profile before she even reads the first line!

A huge problem most guys have is that they don’t know how to maximize their looks.

I remember Neil Strauss – the author of the best-selling book ‘The Game’ – saying he started out at about a 3 or 4 out of 10 in most women’s eyes (looks-wise). Yet, by the time he’d ‘made the most of himself’ – he was a 7 or 7.5.

That’s a HUGE difference.

Question:

“How do you maximize your looks?”

Invest in a decent haircut. Go to the best hairdresser you can find, and let them advise you on how to ‘wear your hair’

Figure out how much facial hair to wear, and in what style. For me personally – stubble suits me. A big beard does not. And nor does being clean shaven. How about stubble that’s all styled and manicured? Nope. That doesn’t suit me either. So, my ‘facial hair’ routine is very simple… I use a beard trimmer (set to its shortest setting), and trim my facial hair every 5 days or so. Giving me rugged stubble all year round. Now, that’s what works for ME. Figure out what works for YOU!

Work on your Posture. This is MASSIVE. Bad posture make you look weak and insecure. Good posture SCREAMS “MAN”. Most guys these days have lousy posture because they spend too much time sat down. If you want to ATTRACT women with ease – you need to figure out a way to have good posture (THIS will help)

Ok. Now, let’s talk specifically about your PROFILE PICTURE. It should:

Make you look Confident. Because women LOVE confident men, and most men are not confident

Make you look happy. Because no woman wants to date a miserable bastard!

I always found some kind of ‘head/shoulder’ shot – taken naturally (it doesn’t want to look like you paid $1,000 to have your profile picture taken) does the job very well.

Online Dating Profile Tip #4: Have 2 or 3 Other Pictures on Your Profile

Your other pictures should do things like:

Show you have a life. For instance, I used to always have a picture of me competing in Powerlifting (lifting heavy weights). Women would often comment on this in a positive way. Full disclosure – it was an EASY way to me to show I was Muscular and Strong, without being Vain (because it wasn’t me half naked in front of a mirror taking a ‘selfie’ – it was me in competition, busting my ass deadlifting)

Give Social Proof. For your ‘Social Proof’ picture, choose a picture of you with some friends. I think a picture that involves both MALE and FEMALE friends is ideal (if you have a picture with just your guy friends, it doesn’t show that women like you. But, if you have a picture with just women, it could make you look like a bit of a ‘Player’).

Show your Status. If you can find a way to subtly show that you ‘have means’ – you will have more STATUS in the eyes of the women viewing your profile. Now, I did say ‘subtle.’ So, don’t just post of picture of your Ferrari or Rolex! That’s a BAD IDEA. But, if you have cool pictures where things that give you STATUS just so happen to be in the picture – great. Include them

Show Pets. I never did this myself. Because I’m not a pet guy. But, a friend of mine called Troy Valance – a top dating coach, and creator of Secret Seduction Spray – did exactly this. He’d always have a picture of him with his dog, Arnie, in his Online Dating Profile. And, he said girls would always comment, very positively, on this image. This kind of image shows your sensitive, loving, protecting side.

Online Dating Profile Tip #5: Choose ‘What You’re Looking For’ Carefully

When I did Online Dating, I mostly used ‘Plenty of Fish’.

When you set up a profile on that site, there are several options you can select in the ‘What you’re looking for’ dropdown.

The options include:

Dating

A relationship

Sex

And, a few others.

I experimented with this and found that choosing ‘a relationship’ got me the most replies, phone numbers, dates and so on.

I think the reason why ‘a relationship’ is the best thing to choose is because it’s non-threatening. If you put down ‘sex’ – it already says to the woman that you want to BANG her, making her see you as a Player, causing her to feel like you’ll probably just use her for sex and then run off.

So yeah, even if you have no plans to settle down and find ‘the one’ – I still recommend ticking the ‘relationship’ option if your online dating site of choice has a ‘what are you looking for’ type question.

Online Dating Profile Tip #6: Make Your Online Dating Profile Interesting

You cannot BORE a woman into going on a date with you.

It’s simply not possible. Not a high quality woman anyway.

And yet, 95% of the online dating profiles I read from men were BORING. No creativity. No imagination.

Dull.

Think about it…

Let’s say a woman has stumbled across your profile, and checked out your image. And, she’s thought to herself:

“Mmmm. He’s kinda cute”

Then, she reads your profile and it’s like:

“Hey, I’m Bob. Not really sure what to write here. I’m new to this. Anyway, drop me a message if you want”.

Jesus Christ.

Can you see how DULL that is?

Can you see how NEEDY that is?

Can you see how no woman in her right mind would ever respond to that profile?

You simply HAVE TO make your profile interesting. Especially the opening sentence, because that’s the one that makes the biggest impression.

Now, as well as making yourself INTERESTING, you should also:

Online Dating Profile Tip #7: Make Your Online Dating Profile Funny

Women love humour.

In fact, for years I’ve been telling guys that the secret to success with women is threefold:

Be interesting…

Be confident…

Be funny.

Those 3 things are 3 things women LOVE. Yet most men don’t have all 3. So, when YOU do, it becomes pretty damn simple to get women to WANT YOU!

The question is:

“How the heck do you write a profile that’s both interesting and funny?”

Well, let me be totally honest…

I could show you some of my old dating profiles. Profiles that led to dozens of dates, and A LOT of SEX.

I could even show you the online dating profile that I was using when I met my fiance!

However, there’s a personal ad (the old-fashioned newspaper version of online dating) that I found a few years ago that’s better than anything I wrote (even though I wrote some pretty badass stuff). The personal ad I’m referring to was written by a guy named ‘Gary Halbert’ – perhaps the greatest copywriter to ever live.

Read it HERE. And, as you’re reading it – imagine how a WOMAN would feel reading THAT profile. Then, use it for inspiration to write your own (but, don’t you dare copy it! You gotta be original).

Talk to you soon…

Your friend,

Adam Armstrong

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