Here’s Exactly What to Do to Take a Woman on a Great Date…

By Adam Armstrong

Dating is a huge source of frustration for most men…

Partly because there’s so much miss-information out there. Partly because most men have never been taught how to interact with women. And, partly because most men just have NO IDEA how women think, or what they want on a date.

In this blog post, I’m going to give you some simple dating advice that’ll allow you to go on successful dates with women – regardless of whether it’s some hot new woman you’ve just met yesterday, or the wife you love who you’ve been with for years!

Either way, read on carefully…

5 Ways to Ensure The ‘Date’ is a Success…

#1. Take Control and Make the Plan

It doesn’t matter whether it’s a new woman you’re wanting to take on a 1st date, or your wife of 30 years, the woman wants YOU to be in control and make the plan. She likely won’t say it, but she sure as hell WANTS it!

If it’s a 1st date, keep it ‘low pressure’.

The easiest option is meeting in a coffee shop. It’s easy for her to say “YES” to. Make it easy for her. Suggest the date, time, and location.

If it’s your long-term girlfriend, fiancee or wife, the same applies… in so much that YOU should take control and make the plan. Because you’re the MAN!

However, obviously, with your long-term partner, it doesn’t have to be a coffee shop. It can be anything you’ll both enjoy – just BE THE MAN and make it happen.

“Honey, I’m taking you out on Friday night. You need to be ready at 7pm. Wear a black dress and heels. And come hungry. Leave the rest to me.”

See how that works?

It’s direct. You’re telling her what to wear (women HATE not knowing what to wear). There’s some intrigue (because you’ve hinted at food, but not told her any details).

That’s the kind of stuff women respond well to.

What women hate is when a man says something like:

“Oh, I’m not sure what we should do. What do you want to do?”

Nope.

That won’t cut it. That’s weak. It’s emasculated.

It’ll just turn her off.

Be a MAN. Make the freakin’ decision. She’ll gladly follow.

#2. Remember Your Manners

Like me, my buddy Jason Julius has devoted YEARS of his life, to helping men to succeed with women.

One thing women always love about Jason is that he’s a true gentlemen. Sure, he’s confident as hell, and he’s great at playfully teasing women (see point 3 for more info on this). But, even while doing all that good stuff, he’s still a gentleman.

You know the kinda stuff…

Holding a woman’s hand when you cross the road.

Holding the door open for her and letting her walk through it first.

Ordering for her at a restaurant.

Simply saying “please” and “thank you” where appropriate.

This sort of stuff goes A LONG way! Women love it. Especially since most guys aren’t very good at it these days.

I’m just thankful my Grandma drilled it into me when I was young!

So yeah, first date, or hundredth date – it doesn’t matter. Act like a gentleman, and treat the woman with RESPECT.

#3. Playfully Tease Her

This is what makes her WET in your presence, even if all you’re doing is sharing a bite to eat in a bar.

Playful Teasing.

David DeAngelo calls is ‘Cocky Comedy’.

It’s the kind of behavior where you make fun of the woman, in a playful way. It gets her laughing at herself, and playfully punching you on the arm.

You know the kinda thing, right?

If not, watch this video:

#4. Talk with Passion and Enthusiasm

Most men are fucking boring. Lots of women are too. But it really is MOST men as far as I’m concerned.

I got invited to a barbecue last year, and I remember 4 or 5 of us all stood in a circle. I wasn’t eating (because the food looked like Dog Food… or maybe even Dog Shit), and I wasn’t drinking (because I value the health of my brain), and I just stood there, in amazement, at how fucking mind-numbingly DULL the conversation was.

I honestly have much better conversations with just myself, on a regular basis. No joke.

All these idiots basically did was ask each other about the food, and the beer. Awkwardly laughing every time the conversation ran dry.

I quickly made my excuses and left.

Why am I telling you this?

Because you can’t BORE a woman into BED!!!

I repeat:

You cannot BORE a woman into bed!

It won’t work on some cute gym chick you’re taking on a 1st Date. And it won’t work on your wife.

Hint: the gym chick will blow you off (not on her knees, but rather, by never calling you again. And, your wife won’t ‘pay out’. It’ll be another night of excuses: “Not tonight honey, I’m tired”)

In contrast, when you talk with PASSION and ENTHUSIASM on dates, women LOVE it. Even if they’re not into what you’re talking about!

I think it’s so rare for a woman to meet a truly passionate man – she can’t get enough of it, even if he’s talking about fishing, golf, maths or nuclear physics.

If she sees passion outside of the bedroom, I think she feels like it’s gonna be passion IN the bedroom too!

Make sense?

Good.

Let’s move on…

#5. Don’t Ask Stupid or Awkward Questions

Occasionally, for a laugh, I’ll sit down for 30 minutes and veg out in front of one of those terrible ‘1st Date’ TV programs. Just to see how DUMB guys can be.

It never ceases to amaze me the questions they’ll ask women, often times within just a few minutes of the date starting!

They’ll ask:

“So, what are you looking for in a guy?”

“How many serious relationships have you had?”

And the worst one of all:

“So, am I your type then?”

Note: if you’re needy enough to ask THAT question, she’s always thinking: “No. No, you’re not. How the hell can I get out of here, and fast!”

I mean, these questions are moronic. Talk about a great way to make a woman feel UNCOMFORTABLE, by asking her questions so PRESSURE-FILLED she doesn’t know where to look, let alone what to say!

When you’re on a first date, keep it light-hearted. Keep it fun.

Get to know her.

You don’t have to decide, within 5 minutes, whether or not you want to fill her with spunk, make a baby, and live happily ever after!

Likewise, when going out with your long-term partner, there are topics to avoid. Don’t bring up stressy subjects. Don’t talk about heavy stuff that’s going to lower the mood. Avoid subjects likely to end in dispute (politics, religion and so on).

I mean, you can talk about whatever you want, but if you want the date to be enjoyable, and you’d like it to end up IN THE BEDROOM, some things are best left ‘off the table’!

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And, I’ll talk to you soon…

Your friend,

Adam

P.S. If you have questions/comments – leave ‘em below, in the comments section, and I’ll get back to you asap 🙂