Here’s Exactly How to Ensure Every First Date You Go on With a Woman Ends Well…

By Adam Armstrong 

I remember once taking a female friend of mine out of lunch. She’s older than me – in fact, she used to babysit for me as a kid! – but, we became great friends as adults.

She’s attractive, intelligent and has a wicked sense of humour.

And yet, for several years she struggled to get past the ‘first date’ with any man. Despite going on LOTS of dates.

Why?

Because, as she told me over lunch, most men are just USELESS.

To cut a long story short, my friend, Helena, told me that most of the guys she dated ended up being:

• Weak and needy (non-dominant)
• Lacking confidence and self-esteem
• Uninteresting and boring

And, she wasn’t dating lousy guys. These were guys who, on paper at least, should have been ‘decent catches.’  Guys from good backgrounds, hard working, decent jobs etc.

But, Helena just proved a point I’ve been making for YEARS…

That most men are pathetically dull.

And, all you really need to do to ‘stand out from the crowd’ and impress virtually ANY woman is to be:

• Confident
• Interesting

And…

• Funny

Still true. Master those 3 things and you’ll get more pussy than a Rock Star.

Right now, I’d like to focus on ONE key area of dating…

How to Ensure Your First Dates are a Success (using 7 ‘Can’t-Fail’ Strategies)…

1. Turn Up “Fashionably Late”…

If you turn up for a date EARLY…

And you text the woman to say:

“Hey Jane, I’m at the agreed meeting point. When will you be here?”

She reads that thinks:

“This guy is a loser. He’s so desperate he’s turned up 3 hours early. And now he’s kind of putting pressure on me to get there sooner”

Don’t be THAT guy!

If you can’t stand being LATE, just turn up AT THE AGREED TIME. But, no sooner!

Ideally, turn up 5 minutes late.

Why 5 minutes late?

Because you can blame that on TRAFFIC. And, 5 minutes late doesn’t make you seem like an unreliable person.

What 5 minutes (or even 2-3 minutes ‘late’) does, is this:

It makes her THINK about you…

It makes her WONDER about you…

It makes her desire to see you go UP.

Effectively, you’re increasing her ATTRACTION level for you, before you even turn up.

2. Plan Carefully…

When it comes to a first date, make it EASY for her to say “YES”…

And, make it easy for her to show up at the agreed time.

How do you do this?

By making the agreed meeting location somewhere where she is likely to feel SAFE and COMFORTABLE…

A Coffee Shop works.

A well-known bar works.

Save weird and wacky date venues for when you have gotten to know her a bit better. For when she TRUSTS you fully.

3. Bounce from Location to Location…

Don’t make a first date all about spending 7 hours in one location!

BIG MISTAKE.

If you spend hours in one location, it’s too easy for things to get boring and fizzle out.

Instead, ‘bounce’ from one location to another…

For instance:

Meet at a coffee shop…

Then go to a bar…

Then go grab a quick bite to eat…

Then go watch a movie…

Bouncing from one venue to another makes a woman feel like she’s known you longer (because you’ve been to more places together). This can really ramp up the comfort level, and chemistry, helping things get TO THE BEDROOM faster.

4. Weave in a Little Jealousy…

People want what they cannot have.

Dark side of human nature.

Think about it…

Why is [INSERT NAME OF YOUR FAVORITE FAMOUS WOMAN] more attractive and appealing than the girl who works in your local coffee shop?

Maybe, physically speaking, the girl in the coffee shop actually has a better body, and a prettier face.

Yet, given the option, you’d still go for a night with your favorite celebrity.

Why?

FORBIDDEN FRUIT.

We cannot resist it.

And, this is why a “Jealousy Plotline” is usually a good thing on a first date…

Here are 2 ways to do it:

• If a hot woman serves you in a coffee shop, bar or restaurant, be super CONFIDENT around her, and make a little conversation (but don’t flirt with her, because they might put your date off, by making you look like a womanizer)
• Text a few friends immediately before your date (this way, you get a few texts coming in during your date, and it gets your new potential woman intrigued by why you’re so popular)

People want what they cannot have. Period.

People will FIGHT harder for something they perceive that other people want too.

Remember those facts. They’re powerful.

5. Be a Good Listener…

Being a good listener can get you laid.

I remember many times in the past where I didn’t really do anything special on a date, other than really LISTEN to the woman I was with, and respond appropriately.

Most people feel like nobody really understands them…

So, when you really listen to a woman, she starts to feel like you ‘get’ her… like you understand her better than anyone else.

Then she wants to suck your dick.

I’ve spoken to enough women about this to know that most guys are TERRIBLE listeners. In fact, many guys just talk to a woman’s TITS. The irony being – they’ll never get to see her tits properly.

In contrast…

If you talk to her FACE, and listen like a ‘pro’ – you’ll very often be spraying her tits with your “load” at the end of the night.

6. Escalate The Touch Naturally…

This point is key. So pay attention…

If you want a first date to go well, you have to TOUCH the woman. Touch builds connection, comfort, attraction and chemistry.

What most men find awkward is knowing WHEN and HOW to touch a woman.

But, it’s really not so difficult if you remember the following 3 rules:

• The better things are going, the more you can touch her
• Start with the most innocent touching possible (a quick touch on the shoulder, a “high 5” or a first bump)…
• Progress to more and more intimate touching, as the comfort and attraction level builds (arms, thighs, hands, lower back, hand holding etc)

7. Leave Her Wanting More…

What I’m about to say next is a little controversial, but it’s what I believe, so I’m going to say it…

IF you want to see the woman again, DO NOT sleep with her on the first date. Sure, you can. However, I don’t recommend it.

Here’s why…

• I can remember many times sleeping with a woman on a first date and then her GHOSTING me the next day! Was this because I was bad in bed? I’m ADAM ARMSTRONG… so clearly not!!! 😉
• I cannot remember a time, ever, when I slept with a woman on Date 2 or 3 that didn’t lead to more dates and more SEX

Here’s what you can take away from those FACTS:

• If you don’t care about seeing her again, first date sex is okay
• The reason why woman often Ghost you after first date sex – even if the sex was great – is because they think you see them as being only worthy of SEX if you BANG them on the first date (meaning: she feels you don’t respect her)
• If you wait till Date 2 or 3 to make things SEXUAL, you’ll always get more dates, and more sex (unless you’re lousy in bed – in which case, read Better In Bed)

Final thought…

The biggest key to keeping a woman you like is to be GREAT in BED.

To become great in bed, go through my Bedroom Boss program.

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