To Be an Alpha Male, You Have to Think Like an Alpha Male – Here’s Exactly How to Do That…

By Adam Armstrong

A man is only as STRONG as his MIND. And, these days most men are mentally weak, especially when it comes to WOMEN.

Many guys think they need to be the ‘Nice Guy’ in order to achieve success with women. Others think they need to label themselves as feminists!

In this blog post, I’m going to talk to you about ‘The Alpha Male Mindset’ – and 5 characteristics every Alpha Male has.

Let’s get into it…

#1: He Loves Women, but Doesn’t Need Them, or Seek Their Approval…

One of the reasons why most men fail miserably with women, is because they think they have to be ‘The Nice Guy’ to enjoy success with women.

All the Nice Guy does is buy drinks at bars and nightclubs, then watch, in horror, as the woman he’s been throwing his money at all night goes home with a BAD BOY!

The Alpha Male loves women, and treats them with RESPECT.

Yet, at the same time – he doesn’t need women. And nor does he seek their approval. This gives him an air of CONFIDENCE that women love. It makes him non-needy. It makes women want to chase him.

#2: He Isn’t Afraid to Say “NO”

Many men act like SHEEP… doing whatever their Boss tells them to do… doing whatever their friends suggest… doing whatever their women DEMAND of them.

The Alpha Male simply refuses to live his life this way. It’s not in his DNA.

Instead, he LEADS, and other men follow!

He leads, and his woman follows (especially in the bedroom)!

If somebody requests something of him that he doesn’t want to do, he has the COURAGE and BALLS to politely say:

“NO”.

Trust me…

It doesn’t matter whether you’re single or in a relationship – it’s a very good idea to learn the skill of being able to say “NO” (especially to women).

You see, you might think a woman wants a man who says “YES” to everything she demands. But, in reality – she sees that as WEAKNESS, and doesn’t respect it.

#3: He is Self-Centered, Yet Not Narcissistic

Pay attention to this point, because it’s really important…

The Alpha Male isn’t narcissistic. He doesn’t believe the whole world revolves around him, and he isn’t incapable of seeing things from someone else’s perspective. 

However, the Alpha Male is at least somewhat self-centered – meaning: he knows what is important in his life, and isn’t afraid to make time for it, and prioritize it.

For instance:

If one of my kids asks me to do something at 10am on a Saturday morning, my reply is:

“I can’t at that time, because I have to meet my training partner at the gym. However, I”ll be back for about 12 noon, and we can do whatever you’d like to do then”.

See how that works?I’m not being selfish.

I’m not making my whole life just about ME. Yet, I am making time for what I need to do, as opposed to giving up everything I love (which is something I see men do all the time, as soon as they have kids, and their women start SCREAMING loud enough. Trouble is, this weak behaviour makes nobody happy in the end).

#4: He Knows What He Wants, and Doesn’t Quit Until He Gets It

Most people QUIT at the first sign of adversity.

As soon as the diet gets hard, people give up, and start eating crap again.

As soon as the workout program gets demanding – people stop going to the gym, making excuses about “not having enough time”.

As soon as progress stops, they give up on that goal, and pick another.

The problem is, this pattern of quitting literally turns you into a QUITTER! And, quitters never achieve anything. 

The Alpha Male refuses to QUIT. No matter how tough things get. Instead of quitting, he continuously modifies his strategy until he achieves his goals… building mental toughness, a strong will, and confidence, in the process.

#5: He Lives a Life that Has Purpose and Meaning – and Therefore: Does Not Waste Time!

“Do not waste time, because time is what life is made up of” – Bruce Lee

The Alpha Male refuses to WASTE his TIME in the way many men do. For instance, the Alpha Male will not:

• Do a job he hates, simply to pay the bills
• Stay with a woman he’s not really into, simply because he’s too lazy to find another, too scared to break up with her (because she might scream, shout or cry), or too fearful to break up with her because he’s worried he won’t find another woman!
• Watch 5-6+ Hours of Television a day, like the average moron!

The Alpha Male spends his time wisely. Doing things worth doing:

• Working on his Health – both mental and physical
• Working a job/career or business that truly means something to him. Something that creates real and lasting VALUE in the world
• Helping his children become the very best human beings they can be

I hope this gives you an insight into how an Alpha Male thinks and behaves. Being an Alpha has nothing to do with being a BULLY. It’s actually about being the very best man you can be, making the most of each and every day.

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Your friend,

Adam Armstrong