Men Are Few and Far Between These Days – Here’s How to Be a Real MAN…

By Adam Armstrong

Yesterday I had a great chat with my friend Jason Julius, from OrgasmArts.com

We were talking about some of the most basic things A MAN should do, and how most men these days fail miserably to do them.

I wish we’d have recorded the conversation (and no doubt we’ll come back to it on a future Podcast), but, it was a spontaneous spur of the moment thing, so we didn’t.

However, what I can do for you right now, is to summarize what we spoke about. I think you’ll find it interesting – and I’m sure you’ll have comments/questions (leave them at the end of this blog post and I’ll get back to you asap).

Let’s get into it…

What a Man Should Do in Order to Be Worthy of The Title “MAN”…

>> Take Care of His Health

Without health, you have nothing. Period.

When your health suffers, you cannot LOVE to your fullest ability. And, you sure as heck can’t FUCK to your fullest ability either!

Without health, you cannot be the best man you can be. You cannot be the best father or husband that you could be.

Without health, you cannot fulfill your potential in any area of your life – be it physical, mental, financial or spiritual.

All of this makes sense, right?

Of course it does.

So why then, do so many men pay no attention to their health whatsoever? Poisoning themselves with cigarettes, excessive alcohol, heavily processed foods, drugs and so on. Acting as if HEALTH is infinite, when in reality – you must do more each year, just to maintain the health you had last year!

Most men ignore their health, then expect the Doctor (or Surgeon) to fix the mess they’ve spent YEARS creating.

If you want to be a MAN your kids look up to, and who is RESPECTED by people you’d like respect from, take care of your Health. It’s the #1 thing you have (or don’t have).

>> Be a Good Father to His Kids

I recently attended an event where a woman told me that her husband one day turned around to her and said:

“I’ve had enough. I don’t want to be a husband anymore, and nor do I want to be a father”.

And, just like that…

He left.

Once a MAN has kids, he cannot choose whether or not he wants to be a father! He’s a father now, whether he likes it or not!

What he can choose, is whether he will be a GOOD father or a LOUSY one. And, any man who chooses the 2nd option doesn’t really deserve the title of “MAN”.

Children are vulnerable. They are precious. They need a strong father figure in their lives.

Any man who denies his own kids that, is simply “a human being with a penis attached.” He is no MAN.

And, by the way…

I’m not saying you have to be a perfect father to be A MAN. What I am saying is that you should be there to support, encourage, teach and love your kids to the best of your ability. And, you should strive to improve your parenting skills with every passing year (especially when your kids are young).

>> Protect and Provide

Because that is a MAN’s role.

To “Protect” – you had better work on your skills of awareness, make yourself strong, and practice some real self-defense.

To “Provide” – well, that bit should be obvious… you gotta earn the money that puts bread on the table!

Now, I understand that some people fall on hard times. And, in those situations, they deserve financial help from the state.

However, I’m not a fan of men who choose to “live off the state” in the long-run, out of sheer laziness. How can your kids, or woman, RESPECT you if you live like that?

The simple answer is:

They can’t.

And yet, millions of ‘men’ are happy spending their days in exactly that way.

>> Stand for Something!

During this part of the call, Jason and I were really ‘letting rip’ at today’s modern society.

It makes me sick how so many men are so AFRAID to speak their mind these days. To stand for something they believe in.

Instead, they bite their tongues and refuse to talk about what they truly believe – because they’re worried someone will label them a racist, homophobe, or any one of a million other names.

The trouble is, if that’s how we all choose the live – afraid to speak our minds – the World is going to become a very miserable place to spend time. It’s basically a total erosion of Freedom of Speech, and if we, as MEN, don’t stand up against it, and voice our opinions, it cannot lead anywhere good.

Got comments or question?

Leave ‘em below, and I’ll get back to you asap 🙂

Your friend,

Adam Armstrong